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User Topic: It's been a good week!
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Content  Posted: 9:54 PM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So this was a good week with work.

I was formally introduced to staff. With a new position, you never know if people will welcome you with open arms or be hostile. People have been overwhelmingly welcoming and receptive - to a point that I'm a little overwhelmed with addressing needs and scheduling appointments. I've even been able to solve a few problems. I've also made some positive steps forward in make some changes that need to happen. The head honcho (that created my position kind of begrudgingly and really doesn't understand my role) paid me a great compliment tonight (she made a nasty, public comment last week about my job), she told me that she has gotten tons of positive feedback about me and that my start has been very positive.

So... yay!!

At first I was all "oh no... things are going too well..can't be good."

Then I remember that I was coming off of 6 weeks of terribleness - breakup, mono, eye infection thing, sick dog, and boss being kind of hostile. I deserved this.

Fingers crossed that it keeps coming.

DDays 2006, and then numerous more
Divorced 2012

"In life, unlike chess, the game continues after checkmate." - Asimov
"Be patient and tough; someday this pain will be useful to you." - Ovid

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Default  Posted: 10:15 PM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay!!! For a great start.

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Default  Posted: 10:16 PM, August 16th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((Hurts)) that is a quick happy hug. You deserve a good week after the past six. Glad you got it!

[This message edited by Pentup at 10:17 PM, August 16th (Friday)]

Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)

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Default  Posted: 10:49 AM, August 17th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Me: BW - I'm much too young to feel this damn old
Him: FWH - Midlife crisis with a pathetic porn wannabe
D-Day: August 2004; Lots of false R until February 2005.

It takes all kinds of kinds....Miranda Lambert

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Default  Posted: 5:42 PM, August 17th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so glad things are turning around for you!

You do deserve some good now!

Me: BSO - 49
Him: FWSO - 72
DS - 16
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

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Default  Posted: 8:54 PM, August 17th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

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