And it's true.
Her, on the other hand, I will never forgive. But my raging hatred at her is fading.
Her, on the other hand, I will never forgive.
I totally get this. I made a conscious decision to never forgive the OM, and once I made that decision, it helped me start to let go of the hate, and he started take up less real estate in my head.
we've learned forgiveness is a process and has stages too...
Check out the book "How Can I Forgive You" by Janice Abrams Spring.
My fWH and I are currently working thru geniune forgiveness.
[This message edited by whattheh at 5:31 PM, August 17th (Saturday)]
"Not forgetting, and not that we don't have making up and work to do."
It cautions him that tough times are likely still ahead, but that you're open to forgiveness.
Too many freaking TTs that nearly cost us our marriage; currently in reconciliation.
"Love isn't a feeling, it's a decision."