BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
Harriet, what are you doing for you? I find I fall back into the pit when I'm not accomplishing anything, or getting out at all. I try to get out to lunch with friends, I'm busy decluttering my house, I'm busy with the kids, I talk to other adults when I'm out there. I still find that I get in the dumps about not dating...but I also know I'm not putting myself out there to date. One, because of time, two, because I'm too chicken to go out many places by myself!
So, if you are feeling stuck in that pit, what are you going to do to climb out? Join a group, take a class, whatever...just change something up. Set yourself a goal to do something or join something before the end of the month, and do it!
I have to take my own advice...in October. September is a nutty month for me.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.
WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.