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SBB posted 8/18/2013 01:51 AM

I've just had the best.news.ever. I'm beaming!!

I don't post about it much because I'm kind of embarrassed about it but since S the sad clown and I have lived in the same smurf village/apartment complex.

It is the only complex in the area that has all of the security and facilities I am after. He moved here to coerce me into moving in with him once the house was sold. He signed his lease during False R and spent weeks begging me to move in with him. I refused and signed my own lease shortly afterwards.

There are something like 15 low-rise buildings in the complex and his unit is about 100m (330 ft) away and overlooks mine (he is a few floors up, I'm on the ground floor).

For the last year I've kept my shades drawn at night and I've felt this ominous presence whenever I've looked out my windows. I've only used the pool/park a few times and I've never used the BBQ area because his balcony overlooks all of it. If I come home late at night (or early morning ) I go the long way because I don't want to even see his balcony let alone be see or be seen by him.

The payoff is that I haven't bumped into him once this entire year.

I was hoping he would move because I really don't want to.

Miss 5 told me they are getting bunk beds at daddy's new place. I think its a stupid idea given she'll need to climb down and back up again to do wees at night but I'm so freaking excited that he is finally moving that I could dance a jig.

I can finally enjoy this wonderful complex and all of its fabulous facilities. He will have no reason to be on my turf ever again except for the rare in-person handovers.

Bye bye douche, its been real. Don't come back now, y'hear!

[This message edited by StrongButBroken at 1:51 AM, August 18th (Sunday)]

HurtsButImOK posted 8/18/2013 05:18 AM

Yay

Doing the happy dance for you! It will be such a relief to no longer have to wonder if douche is spying.

Pass posted 8/18/2013 07:19 AM

That's gotta be a HUGE load off. I'm happy for you!

Chrysalis123 posted 8/18/2013 08:17 AM

Hooray!!!!!

Kajem posted 8/18/2013 08:45 AM

Yay!!!!!!!!!

When's the party?

nowiknow23 posted 8/18/2013 10:34 AM

dmari posted 8/18/2013 11:29 AM

Awesome news!! Do the happy dance!!

jo2love posted 8/18/2013 14:43 PM

Great news!!!

SBB posted 8/18/2013 18:55 PM

Thanks all - I woke up this morning and yep, still beaming.

I guess you don't realise how yuck something really is until you realise you're going to be free of it. Kind of like that M, really.

I AM so having a party and you're all invited!

Strongmama posted 8/18/2013 20:04 PM

You are one strong person to have made it that long with him so close!
Congrats and I'm so happy for you! Yay!! Good bye douche bag, and hello to you enjoying life your NB as you should!