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SBB (original poster member #35229) posted at 7:51 AM on Sunday, August 18th, 2013
I've just had the best.news.ever. I'm beaming!!
I don't post about it much because I'm kind of embarrassed about it but since S the sad clown and I have lived in the same smurf village/apartment complex. 
It is the only complex in the area that has all of the security and facilities I am after. He moved here to coerce me into moving in with him once the house was sold. He signed his lease during False R and spent weeks begging me to move in with him. I refused and signed my own lease shortly afterwards.
There are something like 15 low-rise buildings in the complex and his unit is about 100m (330 ft) away and overlooks mine (he is a few floors up, I'm on the ground floor).
For the last year I've kept my shades drawn at night and I've felt this ominous presence whenever I've looked out my windows. I've only used the pool/park a few times and I've never used the BBQ area because his balcony overlooks all of it. If I come home late at night (or early morning 
) I go the long way because I don't want to even see his balcony let alone be see or be seen by him.
The payoff is that I haven't bumped into him once this entire year.
I was hoping he would move because I really don't want to.
Miss 5 told me they are getting bunk beds at daddy's new place. I think its a stupid idea given she'll need to climb down and back up again to do wees at night but I'm so freaking excited that he is finally moving that I could dance a jig.
I can finally enjoy this wonderful complex and all of its fabulous facilities. He will have no reason to be on my turf ever again except for the rare in-person handovers.
Bye bye douche, its been real. Don't come back now, y'hear!
[This message edited by StrongButBroken at 1:51 AM, August 18th (Sunday)]
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
HurtsButImOK ( member #38865) posted at 11:18 AM on Sunday, August 18th, 2013
Yay 
Doing the happy dance for you! It will be such a relief to no longer have to wonder if douche is spying.
Me: Awesome - 35.... ummm, not anymore
"I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel". –Maya Angelou
Pass ( member #38122) posted at 1:19 PM on Sunday, August 18th, 2013
That's gotta be a HUGE load off. I'm happy for you!
Divorced the cheater and living my best life now.
The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous.
Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 2:17 PM on Sunday, August 18th, 2013
Hooray!!!!!
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 2:45 PM on Sunday, August 18th, 2013
Yay!!!!!!!!!
When's the party?
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 4:34 PM on Sunday, August 18th, 2013
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
dmari ( member #37215) posted at 5:29 PM on Sunday, August 18th, 2013
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 8:43 PM on Sunday, August 18th, 2013
Great news!!!
SBB (original poster member #35229) posted at 12:55 AM on Monday, August 19th, 2013
Thanks all - I woke up this morning and yep, still beaming.
I guess you don't realise how yuck something really is until you realise you're going to be free of it. Kind of like that M, really.
I AM so having a party and you're all invited!
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
Strongmama ( member #33062) posted at 2:04 AM on Monday, August 19th, 2013
You are one strong person to have made it that long with him so close!
Congrats and I'm so happy for you! Yay!! Good bye douche bag, and hello to you enjoying life your NB as you should!
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