Topic: First word you think of pre and post a??
Member # 8291
| Posted: 3:35 PM, August 18th (Sunday), 2013|
This morning I was thinking of what ONE word would describe my marriage both pre and post a.......
Pre a I came up the the word "content"
Post a I came up with the word "sad"
What is the first word you come up with when thinking of either or????
Posts: 2634 | Registered: Sep 2005
Member # 30989
| Posted: 3:51 PM, August 18th (Sunday), 2013|
For both: fraud
BS-me, 55; WX-irrelevant
Divorced after an eternity
"So much for the past and present. The future is called 'perhaps,' which is the only possible thing to call the future. And the important thing is not to let that scare you." Tenn
Posts: 15191 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: midwest
Member # 36622
| Posted: 3:54 PM, August 18th (Sunday), 2013|
fWS 38 (SurprisinglyOkay)
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"
Posts: 2859 | Registered: Aug 2012
|mom of 2|
Member # 11214
| Posted: 3:59 PM, August 18th (Sunday), 2013|
I'm right there with you TICKED.
Pre: content (ok, other than those last few months, but I had 20 years of "content")
edited for typo
[This message edited by mom of 2 at 4:00 PM, August 18th (Sunday)]
Divorced after 23 years of M thanks to XH's truth trickle.
Status: Recovering and healing. It's going to be a long hard road.
Update November 2013: It only took seven years but I finally turned a corner. :)
Posts: 13392 | Registered: Jul 2006 | From: The suburbs of hell
Member # 39313
| Posted: 4:01 PM, August 18th (Sunday), 2013|
I remember looking at my husband at thanksgiving and feeling so in love with him. It either just had or was about to sleep with the skank. How pathetic am I?
I'm like a vacuum bag
That holds all that old dirt
Remember that time we said we'd be together forever?
Don't hate me, don't regret me, don't ever forget me
Wherever you go, whatever you do, don't say I never loved you
Posts: 363 | Registered: May 2013
Member # 22870
| Posted: 4:56 PM, August 18th (Sunday), 2013|
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
Posts: 9094 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
Member # 37951
| Posted: 8:59 PM, August 18th (Sunday), 2013|
married 11 yrs, together 15
Dday May 2012 EA
False R... Dday#2 11/30/2012 PA same MOW
The opposite of love is not hate ... It is indifference.
seems I'm on the 15 year plan
Posts: 73 | Registered: Dec 2012
Member # 40317
| Posted: 9:23 PM, August 18th (Sunday), 2013|
Married: 19 years
Posts: 510 | Registered: Aug 2013
Member # 27196
| Posted: 10:04 PM, August 18th (Sunday), 2013|
PreA - confused
PostA - guarded
Me, BS, 58
Him, WS 61
D-Day June 2009
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk
Posts: 7192 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Coastal South
Member # 35896
| Posted: 10:08 PM, August 18th (Sunday), 2013|
Pre A - Safe
Post A - Lost
BS - 43 (me)
WS - 38
DD - 10
D Day - 6/2/11 EA (would have been a PA if the OW was game)
D Day 2 - 2/8/17 EA again flirting but the girl wasn't interested just using him
Posts: 155 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Maryland
Member # 33867
| Posted: 11:10 PM, August 18th (Sunday), 2013|
Pre A: Distant
Post A: Connected
ME: 55 BS
HIM: 63 WH
Married: 30 years
in R 6 years and it's working but he is putting 200% into it (as he should) to make it right again.
The truth hurts, but I have never seen it cause the pain that lies do.
Posts: 2415 | Registered: Nov 2011
Member # 35417
| Posted: 2:34 AM, August 19th (Monday), 2013|
"Noone can make you feel inferior without your concent." Eleanor Roosevelt
I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy
Posts: 3825 | Registered: Apr 2012
Member # 36763
| Posted: 3:39 AM, August 19th (Monday), 2013|
Before his EA: Naive
After his EA: Numb
Before my RA: Resentment
After my RA: Apologetic
him BH/WH- 31
2002/3 (him) EA
Tog. 14 yrs, Marr. 13 and counting!
Posts: 177 | Registered: Sep 2012
Member # 33523
| Posted: 5:13 AM, August 19th (Monday), 2013|
Pre: naive as fuck
RA: I'll show you
eta: the RA shiznit
[This message edited by Vulcanized at 5:15 AM, August 19th (Monday)]
Me: fBW/MH 40s
3.26.13: Liberation day: D'd the whiny turd after being saddled with a serial cheating, NPD, jitbag 10 years too long
Now: happy in life, happily in love with the RIGHT man -----> Everything is as it should be
Posts: 940 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: The Hostile City
Member # 23777
| Posted: 6:30 AM, August 19th (Monday), 2013|
The truth shall set you free or reveal the name of the OW!
DDAYs TOO MANY
You give me gifts! I don't want your gifts I want the truth. That's the greatest gift.
Posts: 1411 | Registered: Apr 2009 | From: CT
Member # 17062
| Posted: 6:33 AM, August 19th (Monday), 2013|
D-Day: 30 July 2006 LTA: 5yrs or maybe 7yrs.
Me: BS, still young. Him, WS, old
MOW, pathetic ex-fiancee stalker.
4 grown boys, one still at uni.
"There are some words once spoken split the world in two. Before you say them and after."
Posts: 3953 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: UK
Member # 38681
| Posted: 6:37 AM, August 19th (Monday), 2013|
DS: 3 year old.
No remorse so:
Divorced 02/15/2013. No alimony, no CS, got apartment. Won all battles and mind games off the courts.
Posts: 294 | Registered: Mar 2013
Member # 39170
| Posted: 7:22 AM, August 19th (Monday), 2013|
Does it have to be just one?
Me: BS (32)
Him: WH (31)
Married 3 years.
Confessed to PA April 21 2013.
DS (6), DS (18 months)
Aug 30 2013 He gives me back his ring with an ultimatum: "Get over it or get out".
Status: Done like dinner
Posts: 277 | Registered: May 2013 | From: The frozen North, eh?
Member # 29826
| Posted: 8:15 AM, August 19th (Monday), 2013|
pre: blissfully ignorantly naive
post: done (?)
[This message edited by StepAside at 8:16 AM, August 19th (Monday)]
Me 48yrs, king of douchebagastan- 50yrs STD infected bankrupt NPD sociopathic drunk thief
countless A's, he is a predator that targets losers like himself
Last Dday 04/12/2010-Divorcing if/when his cumdumpsters lend him some $ or balls to file
Posts: 1522 | Registered: Oct 2010 | From: Ingersoll Ontario
Member # 33698
| Posted: 9:00 AM, August 19th (Monday), 2013|
FBS; now happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley
Posts: 4079 | Registered: Oct 2011
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