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Divorce/Separation :
just a nasty thought

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 laney57 (original poster member #35617) posted at 11:16 PM on Sunday, August 18th, 2013

Spending many years in NJ, I have always HATED the word.. (Oh here goes) DoucheBag. I would cringe everytime I read it here on SI or heard people say it. I found myself today looking over at my WH "roommate" and screaming it in my head. Gosh, he is!!

Please let him get this job in another city or state far away!

Update 01/21/17
Me - BS, 46
Him - WH, 48
Married - 23 years
D-Day - 05/12/2012
Trying to find me still
Separated 03/2014 (he moved out of state for job)
Tried and tried and failed long distance 09/2015
Have no idea

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 11:31 PM on Sunday, August 18th, 2013

(((laney)))

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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soveryweary ( member #32265) posted at 1:08 AM on Monday, August 19th, 2013

Laney, are you doing in house separation too?

I totally get the screams in inside the head.

My gosh I surprise myself with what goes through my mind about him.

And I get a childish satisfaction giving him the finger when his back is turned!!!

[This message edited by soveryweary at 7:10 PM, August 18th (Sunday)]

Divorced 1/3/14 after 31 years of marriage.

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PurpleRose ( member #33129) posted at 7:24 AM on Monday, August 19th, 2013

Might want to steer clear of my posts then...

divorced the Dooosh 8/13
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Dance like nobody is watching,
Text and email like it will be used in court someday...

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tesla ( member #34697) posted at 9:53 AM on Monday, August 19th, 2013

((((Laney))))

I used to really hate that word too. But it is just so unfortunately appropriate.

"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

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SBB ( member #35229) posted at 10:41 AM on Monday, August 19th, 2013

Your mind is G-rated. My mind drops the C-bomb.

I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

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 laney57 (original poster member #35617) posted at 12:52 PM on Monday, August 19th, 2013

Thanks guys,

Ugh yesterday was rough... DD went back to school and I was able to myself a bit yesterday and focus on how long this past 2 months has been

@Weary, yes, I am. Miserable isn't it!! My haven is now a temp job, so atleast I have something to get away too. I do hope and pray he finds works soon. That is the only thing that is stopping us for moving forward and he is looking for out of state (I believe). See ya DB!!!

Take care everyone...

@Strong... That bomb has it own special "girl" for!!

Update 01/21/17
Me - BS, 46
Him - WH, 48
Married - 23 years
D-Day - 05/12/2012
Trying to find me still
Separated 03/2014 (he moved out of state for job)
Tried and tried and failed long distance 09/2015
Have no idea

posts: 236   ·   registered: May. 19th, 2012   ·   location: KY
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