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strawblond30 (original poster member #6263) posted at 11:49 PM on Sunday, August 18th, 2013
He is already on match . Com . I should really mess with him.
Divorced 2013 after several years of infidelity on both sides. Remarried July 2018 my new husband Is opposite from Ex. I can actually breath with out worrying what he is doing. Living my best life now .
hurtbs ( member #10866) posted at 12:25 AM on Monday, August 19th, 2013
I should really mess with him.
why?
Me - 40 something. WXH DDay 2006, Divorced 2012
WBF DDay #1 9/2022 #2 11/2022
Single
sparkysable ( member #3703) posted at 12:37 AM on Monday, August 19th, 2013
Eh, let him and his cesspool of shittyness wallow in his own stink. He'll get his, don't you worry about that. He will. Don't waste your time.
D-day OW#1 2/2004;D-day OW#2 5/2010
Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.
Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 1:02 AM on Monday, August 19th, 2013
Mine did this too. I reported him because he claimed he was already divorced, when in fact he was indeed quite married (and still is). I reported him to eharmony, too.
Other than something like that (reporting him), I think you should not "mess with" him. Playing games will only backfire on you.
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
strawblond30 (original poster member #6263) posted at 1:33 AM on Monday, August 19th, 2013
Divorced 2013 after several years of infidelity on both sides. Remarried July 2018 my new husband Is opposite from Ex. I can actually breath with out worrying what he is doing. Living my best life now .
Strongmama ( member #33062) posted at 1:58 AM on Monday, August 19th, 2013
Oh mine did that too; along with the pic of my sweet baby girl! Grr!!
I took a snap shot and sent it to my lawyer to send to his lawyer telling them I didn't give a rip if that pos was on there; our D wasn't final, but obviously a little thing like marriage vows were never an issue, but DON'T YOU DARE PUT A PIC IF ONE OF OUR SWEET KIDS ON THOSE sites! Omg I was gonna cut a bitch! I get that it hurts, and they are so pathetic, but if there's no pics if kids or anything I'd ignore and let him live his own pathetic life. That's what it is. Pathetic and full of lies that some poor fool will believe for a bit, but that's all.
(((Strawblond))) I'm sorry, and you didn't deserve this. Try NC, and venting here and ignoring!
Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 2:08 AM on Monday, August 19th, 2013
I'm just hurt
Continuing to give him so much head space, especially by actively focusing on him (sometimes we can't help the passive attention we give, but we sure as hell can do what we want about the active attention we give!) - sorry, what was I saying? Actively focusing on him enough to "mess with him" is only going to prolong the pain you feel.
They say that the best revenge is living well; that's not about him regretting you're living well, it's about re-claiming your head and heart and energy for yourself!
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
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