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strawblond30 posted 8/18/2013 17:49 PM

He is already on match . Com . I should really mess with him.

hurtbs posted 8/18/2013 18:25 PM

I should really mess with him.

why?

sparkysable posted 8/18/2013 18:37 PM

Eh, let him and his cesspool of shittyness wallow in his own stink. He'll get his, don't you worry about that. He will. Don't waste your time.

Nature_Girl posted 8/18/2013 19:02 PM

Mine did this too. I reported him because he claimed he was already divorced, when in fact he was indeed quite married (and still is). I reported him to eharmony, too.

Other than something like that (reporting him), I think you should not "mess with" him. Playing games will only backfire on you.

strawblond30 posted 8/18/2013 19:33 PM

So true I'm just hurt

Strongmama posted 8/18/2013 19:58 PM

Oh mine did that too; along with the pic of my sweet baby girl! Grr!!
I took a snap shot and sent it to my lawyer to send to his lawyer telling them I didn't give a rip if that pos was on there; our D wasn't final, but obviously a little thing like marriage vows were never an issue, but DON'T YOU DARE PUT A PIC IF ONE OF OUR SWEET KIDS ON THOSE sites! Omg I was gonna cut a bitch! I get that it hurts, and they are so pathetic, but if there's no pics if kids or anything I'd ignore and let him live his own pathetic life. That's what it is. Pathetic and full of lies that some poor fool will believe for a bit, but that's all.
(((Strawblond))) I'm sorry, and you didn't deserve this. Try NC, and venting here and ignoring!

Amazonia posted 8/18/2013 20:08 PM

I'm just hurt

Continuing to give him so much head space, especially by actively focusing on him (sometimes we can't help the passive attention we give, but we sure as hell can do what we want about the active attention we give!) - sorry, what was I saying? Actively focusing on him enough to "mess with him" is only going to prolong the pain you feel.

They say that the best revenge is living well; that's not about him regretting you're living well, it's about re-claiming your head and heart and energy for yourself!

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