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Topic: Best wedding gift for "older" couple?

devistatedmom
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Posted: 5:51 PM, August 18th (Sunday), 2013

My BFF is getting married in September. It's also her birthday on the wedding day. Her kids are grown, she's moved into his house which needs some renovations, his kids live with their mom, they have most things, but of course could use some upgrades. I know the next reno is the kitchen.

What is the best wedding gift when you are looking at those of us marrying again over 40/50?

BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.

Posts: 5919 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Canada

Sad in AZ
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Posted: 6:33 PM, August 18th (Sunday), 2013

Gift cards: Home Depot/Lowes/Restoration Hardware/etc.

You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-62
Him: WXH-62
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011

Posts: 25300 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Arizona

hurtbs
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Posted: 6:39 PM, August 18th (Sunday), 2013

Gift card for home depot or ikea? Cold hard cash?

Do they have a registry? Always use the registry.

Me BW Him XSAWH
DDays 2006, and then numerous more
Divorced 2012

"In life, unlike chess, the game continues after checkmate." - Asimov
"Be patient and tough; someday this pain will be useful to you." - Ovid

Posts: 15606 | Registered: Jun 2006

devistatedmom
♀ 24961
Member # 24961

Posted: 6:52 PM, August 18th (Sunday), 2013

No, she doesn't have a registry. She decided that was silly at her age.

BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.

Posts: 5919 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Canada

GabyBaby
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Posted: 7:57 PM, August 18th (Sunday), 2013

Ditto Sad!

Me - 45
DD(24), DS(21, PDD-NOS)

WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself (May 2015) in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).

I edit often for clarity/typos.

Posts: 9964 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Here and There

fireproof
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Posted: 10:59 PM, August 18th (Sunday), 2013

I am not a cook but maybe center the gift around something they enjoy. Possibly a Panini maker or a Keurig.
The other suggestions would be a gift card to their favorite spot because their kitchen will be under renovation. Tickets to a performance. Good luck!

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