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I finally have enough in my retirement account

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 hexed (original poster member #19258) posted at 3:06 AM on Monday, August 19th, 2013

to retire for 1 week!!!!!!

Ok -- I'm secretly pleased as punch with my self but the big picture is a little daunting.

But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 3:28 AM on Monday, August 19th, 2013

Yay you!!!

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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Bloomsday ( member #40275) posted at 3:39 AM on Monday, August 19th, 2013

Make it the week they set the clocks back. It's like getting a raise.

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GabyBaby ( member #26928) posted at 3:42 AM on Monday, August 19th, 2013

Make it the week they set the clocks back. It's like getting a raise.

Me - late 40s
DD(27), DS(24, PDD-NOS)

WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself (May 2015) in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).

I edit often for clarity/typos.

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caregiver9000 ( member #28622) posted at 3:49 AM on Monday, August 19th, 2013

You are funny. I was insanely jealous, for about 7 seconds.

Retirement.... sigh.

Me: fortysomething, independent, happy,
XH "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
two kids, teens. Old enough I am truly NO CONTACT w/ NPD zebraduck
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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 hexed (original poster member #19258) posted at 4:00 AM on Monday, August 19th, 2013

i'm going to have unearth a rich relative if i'm ever going to retire but I keep trying. hey last year I saved enough to retire for 30 minutes so progress is being made.

But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler

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caregiver9000 ( member #28622) posted at 4:27 AM on Monday, August 19th, 2013

Digging up bodies in hopes of finding retirement money is kinda creepy hexed...

Me: fortysomething, independent, happy,
XH "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
two kids, teens. Old enough I am truly NO CONTACT w/ NPD zebraduck
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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 hexed (original poster member #19258) posted at 4:42 AM on Monday, August 19th, 2013

Hey sometimes a girl's gotta do what a girl's gotta do

But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler

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Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 2:30 PM on Monday, August 19th, 2013

Good job hexed!!! You are firmly in the right direction.

"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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cmego ( member #30346) posted at 3:10 PM on Monday, August 19th, 2013

I try not to think that I won't start working until I'm 45. I should be able to save quickly, though.

me...BS, 46 years old.
Divorced

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Newlease ( member #7767) posted at 3:34 PM on Monday, August 19th, 2013

Best thing I ever did was start my own retirement account. I started it when I went back to work after my sons were in school. I didn't put a lot in it at first, but I kept plugging away.

Then when I got D, I told XWH that we should both keep our individual retirement accounts. He readily agreed because he didn't realize I had more in mine than he did in his. I did my homework!

Good for you hexed - you will get there!

NL

Even if you can't control the world around you, you are still the master of your own soul.

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