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I had a nice weekend (wait, I did what?!)

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 krazy8516 (original poster member #40076) posted at 4:30 PM on Monday, August 19th, 2013

I had a nice weekend?!

First time I can say that in a while!

Remember the days when I used to enjoy spending time with my H, even if we were doing something unenjoyable (simply because we were together)? Had a moment like that this weekend. Okay, not so much a moment, as 3+ hours at a car dealership. HATE shopping for a new car; enjoyed doing something with my H that didn't involve us fighting.

It's so strange to be in a state where I know I love my husband and I know I want to make this work, and yet I still don't trust him or have a clue as to how/ when I can forgive him. While the emotional roller coaster has slowed quite a bit, I still have quite a few ups and downs throughout the day. Sometimes they even occur within seconds of each other and the sudden mood swing nearly knocks me on my ass. I seem to recover a little faster these days though.

We went out for dinner last night (Mexican - the food wasn't good, but the company was ). When we got home, he kissed me and said, "I'm glad you decided to keep me around." Truthfully, I answered, "So am I. So far." I know we still have a lot of work to do, so I refuse to get my hopes up, but I think we're off to a decent start.

me: BW, 30
him: WH, 25
us: edging closer to R every day

married 2y, together 2.5y
1 beautiful daughter, 23m

"Someday soon, I'm going to put my life together; Win or lose, I'm starting over again."

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ILINIA ( member #39836) posted at 5:10 PM on Monday, August 19th, 2013

Woohoo! Sunday's are our best days, I tell WH that I warm up enough to him by the end of the weekend to tolerate him :-)

Sadly, Monday's come and since he isn't here, but working 30 feet from the OW, my feeling doesn't stay long....

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