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ButterflyGirl posted 8/19/2013 11:21 AM

I swear, trying to talk to him about finances and the kids is like nailing jello to a wall.

Every time I bring up a FACT, he comes back with manipulation and gas lighting and blame shifting and emotional abuse.

I'm not going to keep explaining the sky is fucking blue asshole. Grass is green you fuckwit. I don't care how many times you twist it around, you can't argue with FACTS.

I can't believe this dipshit is really making me take him to court for something SO FUCKING OBVIOUS. I hate this!!!!

Nature_Girl posted 8/19/2013 11:29 AM

(((HUGS)))

tesla posted 8/19/2013 12:12 PM

Completely hearing you, BG. Asshattery is a very incurable, contagious disease. Unremorseful assholes are highly susceptible to contracting it.

SBB posted 8/19/2013 17:51 PM

This reminds me of that scene in Liar Liar where he tries to say the pen is red.

Maybe try to use that as a visual when smashing his head like a watermelon is totes inappropes.

Talk to your L about going after him for costs when he pulls ridiculous shit - even the threat of it might get him to STFU. Unlikely but a girl can dream.

This is about control - as our give-a-fuck breaks they are only left with a few buttons to push and the fuckers press those buttons relentlessly.

((BG))

ButterflyGirl posted 8/19/2013 21:57 PM

We have threatened him with paying the legal fees TONS of times. He really should have to pay with all the shit he has pulled. He is STILL denying his pension plan that I've known about FOREVER. He's so fucking stupid!!

And I LOVE the movie Liar, Liar. "The color of the pen, that I hold in my hand, is RRRRRRRRRRoyal Blue!!" LOL. Can you just imagine if he had to tell the truth for 24 hours?? That would be priceless!! I'm gonna pretend it's my birthday the night before our next court hearing and make myself a little wish

fraeuken posted 8/21/2013 09:04 AM

Hearing you as well. I am exactly in the same position. It is so infuriating.