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 3Xthefool (original poster member #40113) posted at 9:28 PM on Monday, August 19th, 2013

My WW and I just celebrated our 18th anniversary of our first date on Friday.

On Saturday, she apparently turned off the "searchable" mode on her iPhone. For the past few months since DDay#3, I have done spot checks to see where she was from time to time but had essentially stopped any continuous monitoring.

She made one of her typical Saturday afternoon trips to the office in order to help her staff member do some paperwork. I checked my FindiPhone app and saw that her phone was offline which is unlike her. I later went to the office to check on her and found that she was alone and that the staff member had not come in at all that day. I didn't sense anything unusual about her so my gut feeling was that she was honestly in the office all afternoon. But the more I think about it, the more I am discouraged by the fact that I can no longer search the whereabouts of her phone anymore.

Do any of you think I should expect that something is up and that a possible DDay#4 is imminent?

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JanaGreen ( member #29341) posted at 9:32 PM on Monday, August 19th, 2013

I'm sorry you're having to worry about this.

I don't know anything about the searching mode - is it something that she could have turned off by accident?

Can you ask her about it? If she answers without defensiveness, that would go a long way for me. I don't think it's necessarily an indication that DD4 is forthcoming, but I'd maybe be a bit more cautious moving forward.

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