confusedsad
♀ 39298
Member # 39298 |  Posted: 4:53 PM, August 19th (Monday), 2013 |     |
My husband had an affair with someone at work. He is now starting a new job. I am really excited for him to be away from the last place. I was just wondering if I could get some ideas for boundaries and rules with the new environment. I want to tell him he can't talk to anyone, but his male boss, but I know that is not reasonable. ha ha Thanks.
Me- Betrayed - married 16 years
Him- 2 week affair with someone at work
9 kids
Trying to R
Posts: 35 | Registered: May 2013 | From: confusedsad |
Skan
♀ 35812
Member # 35812 | | Posted: 6:50 PM, August 19th (Monday), 2013 | |
Have the two of you read "Not Just Friends?" That would be a good place to start. For me, my rules are group lunches alone, no "alone" lunches with female co-workers.
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
Posts: 5461 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California |
