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hexed posted 8/19/2013 22:02 PM

my X and I have had the paperwork drafted for our D for a long time. We couldn't file the final papers b/c part of our final agreement involved him keeping me on health ins for 5 years.

The time had come in June. Some minor corrections were needed to the papers. Those are done. We're meeting at the notary on Thursday to sign everything and then its official.

Thursday is OW's bday.

nowiknow23 posted 8/19/2013 22:07 PM

FaithFool posted 8/19/2013 22:19 PM

Bazingah!

exhausted lady posted 8/20/2013 00:52 AM

AND.....freedom, here you come! WooHoo!!!

Williesmom posted 8/20/2013 07:07 AM

Poetic justice - you can have him, OW! Happy birthday!

hexed posted 8/20/2013 08:05 AM

I just think its funny that I'm spending part of her birthday with him. she will be wicked pissed off.

i was thinking about sending her a copy of them with a birthday card. i won't. but i thought it.

ajsmom posted 8/20/2013 08:18 AM

Nice.

AJ's MOM

homewrecked2011 posted 8/20/2013 08:29 AM

FYI I was told that once D was final, due to the new health care law, I could stay on his health insurance thru Cobra for 3 years --AT THE RATE THE COMPANY IS PAYING. So, I have vision, dental, health for 248/mo for 3 years.

hexed posted 8/20/2013 09:45 AM

HW -- that would've been great but still hundreds every month. This was also 5 years ago. It worked out fine for us. We didn't have contentious negotiations. It saved us both on taxes. It equaled out to what I would've received from his retirement. He has EXCELLENT health insurance so it was great.

Mostly we get along fine so this wasn't a big deal for me. Now OW who has dumped X numerous times b/c he 1) can't be trusted (no shit really?) 2) doesn't do what he she says 3) wouldn't finalize the D early with me b/c it would be costly 4) b/c X and I aren't hostile enough anymore I guess it is a big deal to her.

stillstrong posted 8/20/2013 10:29 AM

I just think its funny that I'm spending part of her birthday with him. she will be wicked pissed off.

Haha! Perfect! Maybe you can go out for a drink or lunch afterwards to celebrate your divorce together.

hexed posted 8/20/2013 11:57 AM

SS

We're going to. His idea since I'm paying the filing fees.

FaithFool posted 8/20/2013 12:00 PM

Be sure to text him at bedtime about how awesome lunch was and how glad you are to be getting along so well going forward.

hexed posted 8/20/2013 17:06 PM

That's genius FF!!

I know she snoops through his phone. its such a healthy relationship

caregiver9000 posted 8/20/2013 21:13 PM

Sweet. I think it is a perfect plan to celebrate a divorce and drive an OW crazy at the same time.

She sure does have a prize for her birthday... Cracker Jack prize!