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hexed (original poster member #19258) posted at 4:02 AM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
my X and I have had the paperwork drafted for our D for a long time. We couldn't file the final papers b/c part of our final agreement involved him keeping me on health ins for 5 years.
The time had come in June. Some minor corrections were needed to the papers. Those are done. We're meeting at the notary on Thursday to sign everything and then its official.
Thursday is OW's bday. 
But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned
“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 4:07 AM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 4:19 AM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
exhausted lady ( member #30217) posted at 6:52 AM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
AND.....freedom, here you come! WooHoo!!!
Sometimes the hardest part of finally seeing through someone is accepting what you see...
God grant me the serenity to accept the people I cannot change, the courage to
change the one I can, and the wisdom to know it's me.
-Reinhold Neibuhr
Williesmom ( member #22870) posted at 1:07 PM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
Poetic justice - you can have him, OW! Happy birthday!
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
hexed (original poster member #19258) posted at 2:05 PM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
I just think its funny that I'm spending part of her birthday with him. she will be wicked pissed off.
i was thinking about sending her a copy of them with a birthday card. i won't. but i thought it.
But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned
“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler
ajsmom ( member #17460) posted at 2:18 PM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.
"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
One AMAZING DS - 34
homewrecked2011 ( member #34678) posted at 2:29 PM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
FYI I was told that once D was final, due to the new health care law, I could stay on his health insurance thru Cobra for 3 years --AT THE RATE THE COMPANY IS PAYING. So, I have vision, dental, health for 248/mo for 3 years.
Sometimes He calms the storm. Sometimes He lets the storm rage, but calms His child. Dday 12/19/11I went to an attorney and had him served. Shocked the hell out of him, with D papers, I'm proud to say!D final10/30/2012Me-55
hexed (original poster member #19258) posted at 3:45 PM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
HW -- that would've been great but still hundreds every month. This was also 5 years ago. It worked out fine for us. We didn't have contentious negotiations. It saved us both on taxes. It equaled out to what I would've received from his retirement. He has EXCELLENT health insurance so it was great.
Mostly we get along fine so this wasn't a big deal for me. Now OW who has dumped X numerous times b/c he 1) can't be trusted (no shit really?) 2) doesn't do what he she says 3) wouldn't finalize the D early with me b/c it would be costly 4) b/c X and I aren't hostile enough anymore I guess it is a big deal to her. 
But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned
“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler
stillstrong ( member #36144) posted at 4:29 PM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
I just think its funny that I'm spending part of her birthday with him. she will be wicked pissed off.
Haha! Perfect! Maybe you can go out for a drink or lunch afterwards to celebrate your divorce together. 
Me BS 47
Him WS 51
DDay LTA Feb 21, 2006
R until DDay 2EA's 1/31/12 ONS 2/5/12 Broken NC 7/12/12
Moved out 9/12
Legally Separated 3/13
hexed (original poster member #19258) posted at 5:57 PM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
SS
We're going to. His idea since I'm paying the filing fees.
But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned
“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 6:00 PM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
Be sure to text him at bedtime about how awesome lunch was and how glad you are to be getting along so well going forward.
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
hexed (original poster member #19258) posted at 11:06 PM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
That's genius FF!!
I know she snoops through his phone. its such a healthy relationship
But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned
“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler
caregiver9000 ( member #28622) posted at 3:13 AM on Wednesday, August 21st, 2013
Sweet. I think it is a perfect plan to celebrate a divorce and drive an OW crazy at the same time.
She sure does have a prize for her birthday... Cracker Jack prize!
Me: fortysomething, independent, happy,
XH "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
two kids, teens. Old enough I am truly NO CONTACT w/ NPD zebraduck
S 5/2010
D 12/2012
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