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brokenfyrman posted 8/19/2013 22:52 PM

We are in affair country for a funeral, I know this isn't about me but I am triggered all to hell, the OM rode by the funeral home today on his "midlife crisis mobile", we had the after ceremony gathering at the local community hall where she lusted after OM as a teenager at her brothers wedding and you guessed it she's very distant after I told her what is up. I don't even think she realizes what she is doing. She did ask if I was ok.... No reassurance no support no compassion, did get one ehh hug. And to boot our new MC told her last Friday how important these things are to a BS... FML. Leaving this hell as early as possible Wednesday morning. I hate this shit.

somanyyears posted 8/20/2013 00:46 AM

..hey, bfm... maybe OM's funeral will be the next one you get to attend!!

..i get the triggers whenever i travel to my old neighbourhood..

..and whenever i see a fucking Mustang!!! .. they're everywhere i travel..
..just can't escape them.

..my personal little bright spot is knowing he's dead and i can piss and dance on his grave whenever i feel the need..

..hope to run into his younger brother there one day! .. then the shit will fly!

..hope your WW comes around and gives you the real support you deserve..

smy

StillStanding1 posted 8/20/2013 01:22 AM

(((brokenfyrman)))

We went to a wedding on Saturday and boy, was that a trigger-fest. I can totally sympathize....

Sorry you are stuck there til Wednesday. Stay strong!