So from August 22 - September 9, WH's brother and his family will be visiting, they will be staying in the home WH and his brothers grew up in, BIL was given the house in the will.
Now my problem, to get to this house, they have to drive past mine, and it is a very small community (population is less than 50).
They have OW on FB and from posts between OW and SIL, I have a bad feeling that OW will be visiting them. Now OW doesnt have her license and she l, lives 2 hours away and my WH lives with her. So WH will have to bring her in here
How in the hell am I going to get through this????? I told WH if he brings her in here, it will the final straw for me. That will be the end of any chance of a reconciliation in the future for us.
If he brings her in here, it will show me that he truly does not understand the damage he has caused his family
Just the thought of her out there in their family home, getting together with what used to be my family too is absolutely devestating to me. I feel like such a fool to have held on to hope that we would somehow be able to get past all this and be better and stronger together
If this happens, it will truly be over for me and for us. But God help me, I dont know how I am going to handle this knowing she is out there, God help me not to go out there and confront them all and show her the proof I have, maybe seeing it will make her believe it because she sure as hell didnt believe it from me telling her in January
Maybe I need to follow through with my plan to delete all those texts from WH so I wont be tempted, because by confronting her in front of his family, I look like the crazy one.
I need to stay away from them and they (BIL and SIL) need to stay the hell away from me. DD says if they stop by and she's here, she will let them in. How do I stop that, I dont want to stay home all the time to keep them out, and I dont want them here, but I dont want to have my DD stuck in the middle
OMG, I just thought of something, DD has never met OW, she hates her and the OW knows it, I hope that DD is not out there when OW shows up out there, OMG, DD will flip out.
If WH gives a damn about DD at all, he will NOT bring the OW in here
God help me get through these next few weeks