How do you all deal with the bickering? I'm putting this in General since I'd like to the the WS as well as the BS point of view.
We had an fight on the way to work this morning. It all started when WW did not like the way I asked about my daughter's weekend plans. It slowly escalated into a petty argument about nothing. We are only 3 weeks from DDay. I'm not in a place where I can sense something is brewing and walk away. I'm still in the hurt/pain stage and haven't had a decent sleep since DDay so my guard is down and my "Well, you did … blah, blah, blah" is up.
My concern is that my WW's stance that "I'm not being nice to her" doesn't hold up since I'm not yet in a good spot. In the last week, she's started efforts to make up, but they are small tokens. A hug, "I'm sorry," making my lunch, left me a card). There hasn't been a big "I Love You THIS MUCH and will do ANYTHING to save this marriage!!!!" (including sucking it in if I feel like you attacked me).
Our MC put it in terms of the WW broke my leg and me, the BS, hurt her toes. I feel that the WW is more worried about her toes than fixing my broken leg by snapping back.