Topic: My best friend lost her cancer battle yesterday
Member # 11224
| Posted: 8:51 AM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013|
And I am so incredibly angry. And sad and lost, but anger is the biggest emotion right now. She was only 40.
I don't quite know what to do with myself. But I am so, so glad her pain has ended. I miss and love you Stacy, forever.
[This message edited by stroppy_wanadoo at 8:52 AM, August 20th (Tuesday)]
Posts: 1115 | Registered: Jul 2006
Member # 14866
| Posted: 8:53 AM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013|
I am sorry for the loss of your friend.
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Posts: 54343 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
Member # 31528
| Posted: 8:53 AM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013|
I am so sorry for your loss.
Posts: 44481 | Registered: Mar 2011
Member # 33226
| Posted: 8:56 AM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013|
((((stroppy & friend's loved ones))))
I'm so very sorry, honey.
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Posts: 35295 | Registered: Aug 2011
Member # 6850
| Posted: 11:06 AM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013|
Very sorry to hear of your loss...HUGS
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Posts: 4869 | Registered: Apr 2005 | From: Ontario
Member # 26928
| Posted: 11:09 AM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013|
((( stroppy )))
Me - 43
DD(22), DS(20, PDD-NOS)
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XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).
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Posts: 9116 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Here and There
Member # 17460
| Posted: 11:10 AM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013|
So very sorry.
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Posts: 21288 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
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Member # 34431
| Posted: 11:14 AM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013|
I'm so sorry for your terrible loss.
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Posts: 1350 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: US
Member # 2
| Posted: 11:21 AM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013|
I'm so sorry for your loss
Rest in peace, Stacy.
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Member # 39551
| Posted: 11:23 AM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013|
I am SO sorry stroppy :( Hugs for you.
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Member # 34086
| Posted: 11:28 AM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013|
Sorry to hear of the loss of your best friend.
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Posts: 4902 | Registered: Dec 2011
Member # 20150
| Posted: 11:29 AM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013|
She was lucky to have friends like you to remember her.
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Posts: 19369 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
Member # 14003
| Posted: 12:25 PM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013|
I'm very sorry for your loss.
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Posts: 14619 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Houston
Member # 32122
| Posted: 12:27 PM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013|
So very sorry for your loss.
Me: BS 38
WH: 30 (BrokenHeart911)
Four little dragons.
He had an EA with OW1 (coworker) and lots of online dating profiles.
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Posts: 6123 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Canada
Member # 12041
| Posted: 12:32 PM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013|
I'm very sorry
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Posts: 49223 | Registered: Sep 2006
Member # 21101
| Posted: 1:47 PM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013|
Find peace in knowing she is no longer in pain.
Celebrate her for who she was before she got sick.
Life is short.
Kids: 16 & 18
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
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Posts: 11179 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
Member # 209
| Posted: 1:55 PM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013|
SO sorry for your loss. No words can take away the grief you are experiencing. But we are here.
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Posts: 25681 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: California
Member # 17243
| Posted: 2:04 PM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013|
So sorry for your loss.
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Posts: 961 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Upstate NY
Member # 35812
| Posted: 9:28 PM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013|
Fuck cancer. I hate it. With a passion. (((hugs))) I am so very, very sorry for your loss. God bless and keep you Stacy, and may your friends and family be comforted. (((more hugs)))
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Posts: 6876 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
Member # 33698
| Posted: 9:29 PM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013|
FBS; now happily liberated!
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