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stroppy_wanadoo (original poster member #11224) posted at 2:51 PM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
And I am so incredibly angry. And sad and lost, but anger is the biggest emotion right now. She was only 40.
I don't quite know what to do with myself. But I am so, so glad her pain has ended. I miss and love you Stacy, forever.
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MovingUpward ( member #14866) posted at 2:53 PM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
(((stroppy)))
I am sorry for the loss of your friend.
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 2:53 PM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
(((stroppy)))
I am so sorry for your loss. 
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 2:56 PM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
((((stroppy & friend's loved ones))))
I'm so very sorry, honey.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
movingforward777 ( member #6850) posted at 5:06 PM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
Very sorry to hear of your loss...HUGS
You can't reach for anything new if your hands are still full of yesterday's junk.......Louise Smith
GabyBaby ( member #26928) posted at 5:09 PM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
Me - late 40s
DD(27), DS(24, PDD-NOS)
WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself (May 2015) in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).
I edit often for clarity/typos.
ajsmom ( member #17460) posted at 5:10 PM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
(((((stroppy)))))
So very sorry.
AJ's MOM
Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.
"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
One AMAZING DS - 34
Grace and Flowers ( member #34431) posted at 5:14 PM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
(((((stroppy)))))
I'm so sorry for your terrible loss. 
Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 5:21 PM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
I'm so sorry for your loss
Rest in peace, Stacy.
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
Jennifer99 ( member #39551) posted at 5:23 PM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
I am SO sorry stroppy :( Hugs for you.
Tred ( member #34086) posted at 5:28 PM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
Sorry to hear of the loss of your best friend.
Married: 27 years (14 @JFO) D-Day: 11/09/11"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 5:29 PM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
She was lucky to have friends like you to remember her.
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
lieshurt ( member #14003) posted at 6:25 PM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
I'm very sorry for your loss.
No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.
DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 6:27 PM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
So very sorry for your loss.
(((stroppy_wanadoo)))
Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.
metamorphisis ( member #12041) posted at 6:32 PM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
I'm very sorry
Go softly my sweet friend. You will always be a part of who I am.
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 7:47 PM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
(((Stroppy))))
Find peace in knowing she is no longer in pain.
Celebrate her for who she was before she got sick.
Life is short.
(((and strength)))
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
click4it ( member #209) posted at 7:55 PM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
(((((stroppy))))))
SO sorry for your loss. No words can take away the grief you are experiencing. But we are here.
Me: 45
Two boys: 20 and 17
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01
Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?
willow60 ( member #17243) posted at 8:04 PM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
((((stroppy))))
So sorry for your loss.
Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead....Adele
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 3:28 AM on Wednesday, August 21st, 2013
Fuck cancer. I hate it. With a passion. (((hugs))) I am so very, very sorry for your loss. God bless and keep you Stacy, and may your friends and family be comforted. (((more hugs)))
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
tryingagain74 ( member #33698) posted at 3:29 AM on Wednesday, August 21st, 2013
FBS; now happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley
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