I have recently been thinking of a strange side-effect of my new life as a BS.
Friendships - my female friends with poor boundaries repulse me and close male friends who are married - can't even interact with them anymore. "Couple" friends - basically WH's friends and their spouses - I just can't stand to be around them, I feel like if they didn't know they should have known and if they did know they suck.
I have almost no friends left.
And I'm really LIKING it. I feel like I've been freed. I feel like I'm starting over on the friends too and I get to be more conscious.
I am not even sure how to explain it. Has anyone else been through this?
Questioning my marriage-relationship has led me to scrutinize all my relationships.