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GabyBaby (original poster member #26928) posted at 7:19 PM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
This didnt belong in Divorce/Separation and because it is infidelity relalated, I didnt want to put it in New Beginnings either.
It seems that my secret wish is coming to pass in just a few weeks.
I got an email from XWH that he is moving about 30 minutes away! Currently he lives about 2 blocks from my house.
We've always lived relatively close by for the kids' convenience, but they are both adults (or near enough).
Add to that, he never stays in one place very long, moving every couple of years.
It'll be wonderful to have "my" neighborhood to myself. Hubby and I bought a home here about 5 years ago, so we're not going anywhere (knock on wood).
As for visitation with DS (and dropping off at school etc), because I already knew of his habit of moving around, I had it written into our divorce decree that HE is responsible for travel if he chooses to move from the current 5 mile radius of son's legal home (my home).
Happy Dance!!!!!
Come on folks....boogie with me! 
Me - late 40s
DD(27), DS(24, PDD-NOS)
WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself (May 2015) in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).
I edit often for clarity/typos.
krazy8516 ( member #40076) posted at 7:21 PM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
::happy dancing:: with ya!
me: BW, 30
him: WH, 25
us: edging closer to R every day
married 2y, together 2.5y
1 beautiful daughter, 23m
"Someday soon, I'm going to put my life together; Win or lose, I'm starting over again."
MovingUpward ( member #14866) posted at 7:37 PM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
Jospehine85 ( member #35971) posted at 7:52 PM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
Me - BS
WH - old
Kids
Dday May 2012
GabyBaby (original poster member #26928) posted at 7:57 PM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
I already have a bottle of wine picked out. On the date of the final move-out, hubby and I are going to celebrate in style!
Me - late 40s
DD(27), DS(24, PDD-NOS)
WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself (May 2015) in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).
I edit often for clarity/typos.
WhatsRight ( member #35417) posted at 9:45 PM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
Loud hoots and hollars from me to you!
"Noone can make you feel inferior without your concent." Eleanor Roosevelt
I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy
simplydevastated ( member #25001) posted at 9:48 PM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
Awesome news!
Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 10:06 PM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
Woo hoo!
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
nestlee ( member #39871) posted at 11:38 PM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
Awesome,
A woman needs a man..Like a fish needs a Bycicle.
Want To Wake Up ( member #31583) posted at 6:56 AM on Wednesday, August 21st, 2013
Come on folks....boogie with me!
OK...
Me 54
WH 54
Met 1978
Married 1981
DDay 2009
Latest TT... Nov 2013 (yep, 2013... not a typo!)
"Adultery is not a symptom of a struggling marriage....a struggling marriage is a result of a person who can chose adultery."- saw this on SI
ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 8:46 AM on Wednesday, August 21st, 2013
Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now
NoTriangles ( member #35985) posted at 9:10 AM on Wednesday, August 21st, 2013
WoooooHoooooo!!! I am totally doing the boogie woogie with you.
My ex-douchebag moved this spring. From 4 miles away to 40 miles away. I totally get how liberating it feels to reclaim your neighborhood.
I am so happy for you!!! Congrats!! Enjoy your freedom!!
[This message edited by NoTriangles at 3:11 AM, August 21st (Wednesday)]
Me: Finding my SunlightHim: Traitor in my FoxholeLet go or get dragged.
lynnm1947 ( member #15300) posted at 3:21 PM on Wednesday, August 21st, 2013
I'll raise a glass and dance a jig!
Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!
"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks
GabyBaby (original poster member #26928) posted at 4:07 PM on Wednesday, August 21st, 2013
Want to Wake Up - That dancing smiley is AWESOME!!!
No Triangles - I read your post about your beach castle and where you are now vs. your ex and I cheered! Congrats to you as well!
Drinks for everyone! This round is on me!
Me - late 40s
DD(27), DS(24, PDD-NOS)
WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself (May 2015) in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).
I edit often for clarity/typos.
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