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Thelastknight posted 8/20/2013 16:38 PM

I served my xWW for a modification of parent time. Lucky for me I have worked had financially the last 4 years and now have everything but my home paid for. In a local classified I seen that she was selling her. Affair husbands guns. Things must be tight for them. Funny thing is I waited until there vacation was planned and in full swing. I though they might max out their credit cards. I think I was right. However, now I wonder if she is not fighting so hard for me to get the Standard Every-other weekend just for the additional income.

TLK

cmego posted 8/20/2013 16:59 PM

Honestly, it is a distinct possibility. Check the laws in your state to see at what point you have to modify child support based on custody.

For example, in my state, the cut off is 90 days a year. If my ex has the children more than 90 days a year, then he could petition to adjust child support. Because he only has the kids something like 70 days a year (e/o weekend/Spring Break/1 week Christmas/ extra time over summer) then he pays me full support.

I have a friend here whose WS tried to slip past that law by arranging to have their children something like 95 days a year...fortunately her L caught it. She keeps his visitation under 90 days a year.

If it were me, I'd keep a copy of that classified ad, and anything else suspicious

gma56 posted 8/20/2013 16:59 PM

Poetic Justice
Indeed !

Once in awhile our timing is right on!

In a local classified I seen that she was selling her. Affair husbands guns. Things must be tight for them. Funny thing is I waited until there vacation was planned and in full swing.
I think, everything isn't so "perfect" in affairfuckland.

I hope you get the modification ! Good luck !
Gma

[This message edited by gma56 at 4:59 PM, August 20th (Tuesday)]

tryingagain74 posted 8/20/2013 21:26 PM

Yes-- it was about money when it came to my XWH. He did not like what my state expected him to pay for three kids based on his income. I think that if it had been far less, he would have happily given me whatever I wanted regarding custody, and maybe he wouldn't have the kids as often as one weeknight per week and EOW. That's what he has right now, and he sticks to it exactly probably because he's afraid that I'll go after him for more CS if he doesn't take them for his regular visitation.

I'm sure she wants your money. I doubt that there are many unremorseful cheaters who really and truly want to spend lots of time with their children. Children are just too darn real-- messy, time-consuming, sometimes difficult-- and that interferes with their fantasy lives in Unicorn Skittle Farting Happy Affair Land!

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