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Morhurt posted 8/20/2013 17:45 PM

Today I feel strong.

I hate and despise what my husband did. It makes me sick to think of ANY of the details, or the magnitude.

And yet, I love him and he loves me. He is remorseful and caring and honest and true.

I also love my IC. Big time. She rocks!

:)

LosferWords posted 8/20/2013 18:11 PM

This is great!

I am glad you are feeling strong. That is a good sign of healing.

Sounds like you are still acknowledging the pain, yet still moving forward.

A good IC can be very valuable.

Congrats on your first R post, and good luck.

Skan posted 8/20/2013 19:10 PM

Welcome! May you have many more good posts here!

Girlietoo posted 8/20/2013 19:33 PM

Posts like this give me hope. Thank you and best of luck.

Morhurt posted 8/20/2013 23:45 PM

I had a set back shortly after posting this.

We went to the grocery store, bumped into a mutual (woman) friend and were chatting. I saw another woman that my H knows from the gym. I don't like her. She pays attention to him and it's like I don't exist. Anyway she walked by us and intentionally "bumped" into my H. He said hi to her and turned back to us.

There is nothing between H and this woman. But it still upset me. I ended up writing how I felt about the encounter in an email to H and we discussed it. It feels so much better to talk it out. But man I hate that I need to!

Anyway, my theory on her, and H concurs, is that her behaviour IS inappropriate. She is trying constantly to get H's attention away from me. I'm pretty sure that's her way in general. She's cute and skinny and young(er).

:(. It makes so bummed that some bird brained bimbo can wreck my strong, happy day.