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strawblond30 (original poster member #6263) posted at 11:51 PM on Tuesday, August 20th, 2013
Is it normal that I cry hourly and he cries often and we both think we still love each other but need time apart to know for sure?? Is this normal .
Divorced 2013 after several years of infidelity on both sides. Remarried July 2018 my new husband Is opposite from Ex. I can actually breath with out worrying what he is doing. Living my best life now .
sparklezombie ( member #40095) posted at 1:09 AM on Wednesday, August 21st, 2013
I hope so. Going through something similar here
BS: Me
WH: Husband
One daughter - 22 months
Married 11.5 years
2.5 false R's.
Status: Divorcing.
You can't pick up a turd by the clean end. Time to flush the toilet.
ladies_first ( member #24643) posted at 1:22 AM on Wednesday, August 21st, 2013
strawblond30, Any chance you could update your taglines?
If you are, in fact, officially divorced ... you'll probably get a more honest answer.
Because Divorce is hugely painful, and when we're in pain we cry.
But it sounds like some denial going on if you're focused on time apart, and hoping to get back together, when as recently as the weekend he was out with others.
"We must be willing to let go of the life we planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us." ~J. Campbell
"In the final analysis, it is your own attitude that will make or break you, not what has happened to you." ~D. Galloway
strawblond30 (original poster member #6263) posted at 3:19 AM on Wednesday, August 21st, 2013
He thinks after time apart we will know if we want each other or others. I can't move on he is dating .
Divorced 2013 after several years of infidelity on both sides. Remarried July 2018 my new husband Is opposite from Ex. I can actually breath with out worrying what he is doing. Living my best life now .
Maxiom ( member #26001) posted at 3:24 AM on Wednesday, August 21st, 2013
It is normal but I want to caution you reading too much into your STBX or ex's reason for crying? It may be completely different from your own, yet you transfer your own reasons onto him.
Look.. he had many opportunities to be the husband for you. To stop his destructive behavior and work toward a true reconciliation. He did not.
On the information you have provided i suggest he is crying for purely selfish reasons. He liked the way things were when he got his women on the side and you were blissfully unaware of that. That is what he misses. That is what he currently laments.
This is a very disordered individual and you will be much better off without him in your life.
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