So he doesnt want to take kids to cheer and football practise. Ds5 lost a piece of his flag belt last saturday bc wh let him play with the belt. He calls me screaming at me. Screaming. I couldnt get a word in edgewise so ended up screaming back (yes, stupid). He calls me a bitch then hangs up.
I email the coaches and tell them wh doesnt want to take the kids to practise.
When I get home its more screaming and sarcasm.
Turns to the car
H: I paid for the car repairs.
Me: yeah but you broke the car (he blew the engine on one wouldnt replace break shoes on the other so when I got the car back there was serious damage)..
H: I paid for the car repairs. All of them.
Me: you broke the cars. I paid the wear and tear.
H: no you didnt. And I didnt have to fix the cars. I could have sent them to the junk yard
Me: then do it.
He demands to go out and eat. He is home all day but doesnt cook and now he is hungry.
He wont pick a place but hates what I pick.
Wr finally go to applebees.
We are there less than 5 minutes when he gets up to go speak to the bartender.
Bartender comes over when wh is in the bathroom to apologise for the waitress being late. I was horrified. I said "but it was only 5 minutes".
Then its why didnt I do this or that for him. Now he has to do what he has to do.
She can have you.
I dont need her.
You cant do anything yourself (he doesnt. He bullies people into doing xyz or says I wont do it for him, the poor baby).
He starts on my job. Why do I work 12 hrs and get paid for 8.
Im trying to prove myself.
I was taken out of the possition. When he finds out he will start that im worthless and incomoetent.
Today I pushed for 2 days off bc im physically exaughsted. Now im reversing that request bc I dont want to be around him.
I called phase one of the national abuse line. Now I have local number.
Today he threatened leaving. I said it would be a gift.
He is as mean as he was when dd was born and then 2 yrs later when he started his a.
