Apparently he is keeping up with her school schedule from overseas because he knew she started school already. My thought was “wow, he is finally making an effort on his own…”. He asked her how her summer was and what classes she was taking. She responded that her summer was busy with school work and she did not have any time because she had a softball tournament coming up and told him what her classes were. But she was as cool as a cucumber. Kinda like “Yeah, I am a badass..what up? I don’t have time for your BS.” I know I am reading a lot into this, but she is my DD and I know her very well.
I do have to give him a C for effort. I gave him a pretty hard smack down a couple of months ago when he suggested that she go visit him while he lives with Awhore, who she hates. I told him that no way was she visiting that bitch and he should know better than to ask. Plus DD has given him the very cold shoulder since she found out he moved overseas with Awhore. I would give him an A for effort if he came back at least once a month for the cold shoulder from her, but he only emails her every few months, so I give him a C in “Attempting to cultivate a relationship with my child who hates me”. But I have him a solid F in “Supporting my child in all her needs, including emotional, mental, and financial”. Hell, I give him a triple F in that!