I never thought I would be posting I JFO again...
WH and I have been in R since 2008. We had 18 mos of IC and MC. We talked more, created a new family with OC, were involved in church, had dreams and plans for the future.
WH took a 2nd job 2 yrs ago to help pay down credit cards and get a nest egg to get a new house or land to move onto. He worked 85-90 hours a week then cut back to about 60. He was 2 weeks away from quitting 2nd job, had given notice when D-Day #2 WS told me about sexting and meeting up with M F friend he used to work with and kept up with on Facebook. One time of getting naked and touching but no intercourse. WS stopped and left. WH is currently staying with his parents and I am considering D. WH does see COM and OC at my home. WH is setting up IC may have SA? I am putting off major decisions until 1st of the year. I am getting into financial shape and weighing my option. WH is a good father but our M has been shifting under our feet. I am hurt but not devastated and maybe not very surprised. Since D Day #1 maybe I have been waiting for the other shoe to drop. I am not setting the rules this time, not making lists. I told WH he needs to figure out what is wrong and fix it before he ruins all his relationships. He may have ruined this one beyond repair.
COM has autism and changes are hard for her. Trying to keep things normal for C as possible.
So tired of A rollercoaster.