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struggling3 posted 8/21/2013 07:51 AM

Today is our 31st wedding anniversary and it feels like we are in a really good place. My H has really stuck with the ups and downs of that roller-coaster (as he should). He has shown such remorse, compassion, and has made me know that I am his everything. He knows that I still have some struggles and is time after time there for me and makes me feel beautiful and wanted after all of these years. After two years of dealing with this shit...I am rapidly feeling better. Had to share my good
day.

Sadwife222 posted 8/21/2013 08:24 AM

Our marriage counselor, who was cheated on eleven years ago, told me it took her two years to get to the other side.
I'm happy for you and hoping I will feel happy again when I'm at the two-year mark. It is getting better but it's ever so slowly.

LosferWords posted 8/21/2013 08:26 AM

This is great to hear. Congrats, struggling3!

AFrayedKnot posted 8/21/2013 08:58 AM

nekorb posted 8/21/2013 09:34 AM

Wonderful!

You give me hope....

jo2love posted 8/21/2013 10:38 AM

Wonderful update!

Twentyplus posted 8/21/2013 11:00 AM

31st anniversary coming up in Nov. While not where you are, so very much better and actually looking forward to celebrating this one,

Appreciate your post.

ohiocarrie535 posted 8/21/2013 13:25 PM

I've heard over and over the 2-5 year mantra. At 6 months it's disheartening to think I have another 18 months of this roller coaster! Ugh!!!

forgivingnow posted 8/21/2013 15:05 PM

Happy Anniversary!!!!

struggling3 posted 8/22/2013 07:27 AM

Thanks everyone for the good wishes. I went to his office to surprise him for lunch. It is far from home and she works in the same building. It was great...no triggers...very romantic. We had the very best day and I was on cloud nine.

Ohiocarrie535

I've heard over and over the 2-5 year mantra. At 6 months it's disheartening to think I have another 18 months of this roller coaster! Ugh!!!
I wish I could tell you this isn't so but sadly it really is. I have had just about the best case scenario with my H doing everything right and it was still damn hard at times. I can still have some really bad moments. Just hang in there and try to stay in the present as much as possible. I'm not saying to rugsweep your feelings...let them happen...talk about them and try to let it go and get back to the present and staying close. Good luck

bionicgal posted 8/22/2013 08:19 AM

So nice to hear!

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