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Part of the reason to Why? Very interesting!

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Offhispedestal posted 8/21/2013 11:46 AM

I found this article and I must say that A LOT made sense ! I don't feel that this is the only answer to WHY they did what they did. But I understand now why my H became the asshole he did, why he gave me ridiculous answers....it made me crazy..I was always like "you expect me to accept your BS answer?"

Please read!

http://www.examiner.com/article/third-stage-of-an-affair-discovery-addiction

krazy8516 posted 8/21/2013 12:58 PM

Very interesting.

Thanks, Offhispedestal!

Offhispedestal posted 8/21/2013 14:58 PM

When I read the second half of this article it just clicked. Everything I read is EXACTLY how my H acted. The stupid justifications, the blame, His explanations only made sense to him!

Pass posted 8/21/2013 15:19 PM

I like how they use the terms "Loyal Spouse" and "Disloyal Spouse". They are much more active terms for what actually happened.

myperfectlife posted 8/21/2013 17:47 PM

Bingo...sounds exactly like my WH. If that stage is finally over maybe my marriage can survive.
I am waiting to find out.

ILINIA posted 8/21/2013 18:04 PM

I agree with the "loyal" and "disloyal" terms and like how we can be the "hero" of the marriage...it gives us a positive term vs a negative

[This message edited by ILINIA at 6:18 PM, August 21st (Wednesday)]

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