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Topic: Just wondering...

crazyblindsided
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Posted: 4:40 PM, August 21st (Wednesday), 2013

Did anyone else get the honor of wanting to be hugged by the WS as DDay hit? I just read this on a post in the Just Found Out forum and my WH tried to do the same thing when I first discovered his A with MOW.

What on fucking earth would posses a person to want to do such a thing after being discovered for their vile act? I mean a hug? Really?!?! I wanted to knock him the fuck out when he did that.

BS/FWS (me):42 Madhatter
WS/BS:45 Serial Cheater
Together 20 years, Married 15
DD(13) DS(10)
DDay(s) Too many to count
Final Dday 7/11/14 Same OW2
Ducks in a Row!
"Never seek validation from those who are unworthy."

Posts: 3773 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: California

Jennifer99
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Posted: 4:47 PM, August 21st (Wednesday), 2013

I hugged wh. Told him I felt sorry for him "you stupid stupid man "

Posts: 557 | Registered: Jun 2013

RyeBread
♂ 37437
Member # 37437

Posted: 4:51 PM, August 21st (Wednesday), 2013

WS's have strange ways of trying to feel better about their poor choices sometimes.

My STBXWW wanted a hug after telling me of the betrayel she felt when OM left her for OOW. I pushed her off, got up, and said "What did you think was going to happen?" Then walked out the door and had a beer with a friend.

Let him that would move the world first move himself. - Socrates

Posts: 1057 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Midwest

Skan
♀ 35812
Member # 35812

Posted: 4:54 PM, August 21st (Wednesday), 2013

That may have been me, you read about can't remember. But yea, FWH tried to give me a hug when I broke down crying, and the clearest, Do Not Fuck With Me growl came from the depths of my soul, voice came out of me along with a straight-arm that any NFL player would have been proud of, and I backed him into the counter. It was a moment of ice-cold clarity in an otherwise emotion-ridden f-fest.

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012

Posts: 7614 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California

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