WH at one point told OW that I had breast cancer, hoping that she would just break it off with him and let him go. He tried to use it and say he was moving back in with me to take care of me.
Turned out, she wrote him a very long 10 page letter (I read that one too) of all the ways he could see that I was taken care of without his compromising any time he spent with her, how much she demanded he man up and not use my having cancer to neglect her, at least 5 separate lists of the ways he could provide her the attention and meet her needs, the ways my daughter could "step it up" and do more to help me instead of him.....on and on...
This lie pisses me off because there actually are so many families dealing with cancer for real, its not a joke. His own mother went through it a few years ago. I think its disrespectful.
This one is pissing me off today.
Apparently when WH told OW she was being selfish, she went turbo psycho ballistic.
Its like there's me, going about my life, working and living a busy and happy life, and then in contrast there is this super bizarro world that he created and there is this other wife he makes up sensational stories about, uses to his advantage (BS holds me back, tries to change me, boo hoo) and OW jumps all over that info and then its "them against me"....only I don't even know any of it is going on!
Feel so ridiculous.
What will they do without me (or that "imaginary version of me") there to create conflict and excitement??
Since I emailed them BOTH last week and reminded WS (right in front of OW) that I NEVER held him back or made him the bad guy for going out with friends, that I supported him in all he did, that I was never sick and never needed to move back in with him, I think now they will have to see if their relationship can stand on its own.
Doubtful. As WS seems to get off on the secrets and always seemed super high, happy and full of life all the times he was seeing us both and lying to us both.
Its all been such a freakshow. I miss my boring daily routine!! I'm trying to get my life back in order, (minus WS) and get back to the mundane!
Had enough freaky to last a lifetime.