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User Topic: And we're back to everything being my fault.
♀ 33581
Member # 33581
Default  Posted: 9:19 PM, August 21st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

NOT surprised. Disappointed yes.

We had had a really productive talk where I felt like we actually heard each other for the first time in a long time. So, I started entertaining a sliver of hope again. MISTAKE!!!

I know people. I really, really do. I am doing the same thing we all do. I'm trying to hang on to that one sliver of hope that our asshats will change.

Not going to happen. I need to detach. I need NC. I am going to have to tell my DD that we just can't be friends yet. I need time to process this.

It stops when I say it stops. I need to say it stops.


If Happy Ever After did exist, I would still be holding you like this.
All those fairly tales are full of shit.
One more fucking love song I'll be sick. ~ Maroon 5

Posts: 1526 | Registered: Oct 2011
♀ 33226
Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 9:23 PM, August 21st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


You can call me NIK

"The dark does not destroy the light; it defines it." - Brene Brown

Posts: 33424 | Registered: Aug 2011
♀ 38928
Member # 38928
Default  Posted: 9:53 PM, August 21st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It seems like every time we hung our hopes on the thinnest of slivers, they end up burying it in our backs like a shard of broken glass...

I'm sorry. Hang in there.

BS - Me
XPOS - too many OW/OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - DDs 23,18 -DS20 Deceased
D 2013

~Hakuna matata!~

Posts: 1823 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Rising out of Hell's ashes!
♀ 36307
Member # 36307
Default  Posted: 10:03 PM, August 21st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ahh. I too we'll understand as I too am the recipient of "the blame game"

It has always been my fault....
Disgusting on many levels, but hear you.

Stay strong! You are so worth it!

BS: Me (65yo)FWH: HIM (67yo)) serial infidelities over past 35 years
DD: Multiple unconfirmed until 2013

friends wife lasting 10 years. TT over a
year a year. Now his health is declining,
among the lack of communication.

Posts: 685 | Registered: Jul 2012
Topic Posts: 4

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