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User Topic: And we're back to everything being my fault.
♀ 33581
Member # 33581
Default  Posted: 9:19 PM, August 21st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

NOT surprised. Disappointed yes.

We had had a really productive talk where I felt like we actually heard each other for the first time in a long time. So, I started entertaining a sliver of hope again. MISTAKE!!!

I know people. I really, really do. I am doing the same thing we all do. I'm trying to hang on to that one sliver of hope that our asshats will change.

Not going to happen. I need to detach. I need NC. I am going to have to tell my DD that we just can't be friends yet. I need time to process this.

It stops when I say it stops. I need to say it stops.


If Happy Ever After did exist, I would still be holding you like this.
All those fairly tales are full of shit.
One more fucking love song I'll be sick. ~ Maroon 5

Posts: 1525 | Registered: Oct 2011
♀ 33226
Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 9:23 PM, August 21st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


You can call me NIK

This is it. The darkest day. The blackest hour. Chin up, shoulders back. Let's see what we're made of, you and I.
- The Doctor

Posts: 32613 | Registered: Aug 2011
♀ 38928
Member # 38928
Default  Posted: 9:53 PM, August 21st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It seems like every time we hung our hopes on the thinnest of slivers, they end up burying it in our backs like a shard of broken glass...

I'm sorry. Hang in there.

BS - Me
XPOS - too many OW/OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - DDs 23,18 -DS20 Deceased
D 2013

~Hakuna matata!~

Posts: 1823 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Rising out of Hell's ashes!
♀ 36307
Member # 36307
Default  Posted: 10:03 PM, August 21st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ahh. I too we'll understand as I too am the recipient of "the blame game"

It has always been my fault....
Disgusting on many levels, but hear you.

Stay strong! You are so worth it!

BS: Me (65yo)FWH: HIM (67yo)) serial infidelities over past 35 years
DD: Multiple unconfirmed until 2013

friends wife lasting 10 years. TT over a
year a year. Now his health is declining,
among the lack of communication.

Posts: 665 | Registered: Jul 2012
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