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Topic: I have a date?
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click4it
♀ 209
Member # 209 |  Posted: 11:35 PM, August 21st (Wednesday), 2013 |     |
How'd that happen?
I haven't had a date or just a "meet for a drink to size up the other person in person" in over a year.
I wasn't expecting to be asked out so fast. There was just a question or two back and forth. Usually I like to talk a lot longer than that before agreeing to meet, but why not talk in person?
Eeeks. 
Me: 42
Two boys: 17 and 14
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01
Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?
Posts: 25649 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: California |
ArkLaMiss
♀ 14918
Member # 14918 |  Posted: 11:53 PM, August 21st (Wednesday), 2013 | |
Relax! It's only a date. Have fun and please report back asap! 
Just HOW stupid do you think I am, exactly?
Posts: 1313 | Registered: Jun 2007 |
FaithFool
♀ 20150
Member # 20150 | | Posted: 12:09 AM, August 22nd (Thursday), 2013 | |
Breathe!
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
Posts: 18094 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada |
wildbananas
♀ 10552
Member # 10552 | | Posted: 12:27 AM, August 22nd (Thursday), 2013 | |
I think it's awesome, clicky! I hope you have a great time. 
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
Posts: 15505 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl |
She11ybeanz
♀ 27457
Member # 27457 | | Posted: 7:16 AM, August 22nd (Thursday), 2013 | |
YAY!!!! I hope you have a blast! (And please update us!) 
"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"
ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12
Posts: 2749 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Virginia |
cmego
♀ 30346
Member # 30346 | | Posted: 7:20 AM, August 22nd (Thursday), 2013 | |
I have a lot of guys who ask me out in the second email. They just don't like/want to bother with the email chatty stuff.
Usually I tell them I like to chat just a bit before meeting, or ask for their first/last name to google them before agreeing to meet.
Some poof after I ask for their name 
me...BS, 44 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
Divorced
Posts: 4421 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: South |
MovingUpward
♂ 14866
Member # 14866 | | Posted: 10:49 AM, August 22nd (Thursday), 2013 | |
YAY Clicky!!!!!!
AKA Moo
Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless
We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.
Posts: 53957 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation |
click4it
♀ 209
Member # 209 | | Posted: 2:22 PM, August 22nd (Thursday), 2013 | |
Its not till Tuesday. But I will keep you all posted.
(The cynical part of me says - he will cancel anyway)
I know, I know, stop trying to think so negative.
Me: 42
Two boys: 17 and 14
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01
Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?
Posts: 25649 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: California |
Jrazz
♀ 31349
Member # 31349 | | Posted: 2:52 PM, August 22nd (Thursday), 2013 | |
Oooooh I'm EXCITED!!!
I'll try my best not to be a nuisance Wednesday morning.
"All the wars, all the hatred, all the ignorance in the world come out of being so invested in our opinions. And at bottom, those opinions are merely our efforts to escape the underlying uneasiness of being human. - Pema Chodron
Posts: 20715 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California |
Too_Trusting
♀ 99
Member # 99 | | Posted: 5:17 PM, August 22nd (Thursday), 2013 | |
AWESOME clicky! You GO girl! You soooo deserve this. Enjoy!
"Anyone perfect must be lying; anything easy has its cost. Anyone plain can be lovely; anyone loved can be lost." Barenaked Ladies
Posts: 2531 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: North Carolina |
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226 | | Posted: 10:01 PM, August 22nd (Thursday), 2013 | |
Yay for first dates! Have fun, honey.
You can call me NIK
“The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.”
― Pema Chödrön
Posts: 28180 | Registered: Aug 2011 |
click4it
♀ 209
Member # 209 | | Posted: 11:36 PM, August 22nd (Thursday), 2013 | |
Here I go wondering...
The last thing I said was "yes, 7pm should work for me."
And then nothing.
And yes, I looked at his profile a few more times to get his details again so I wouldn't be going "blind" to this meet up.
But now I wonder if he thinks damn why does she keep looking at my profile and now changed his mind.
Damn full moons, its making me nutty tonight...
Me: 42
Two boys: 17 and 14
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01
Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?
Posts: 25649 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: California |
click4it
♀ 209
Member # 209 | | Posted: 8:52 PM, August 27th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
WELL, here I am about to head out the door, makeup on and rushed to get dressed and SOMETHING told me to check online to see if there is any last minute messages from him.
And wa-la there is one. He sent me a message online at 3pm saying he is unable to make it tonight due to work and can I meet tomorrow. Good enough reason, however, he had my number (as he gave me his) and could have TEXTED me this information so that I didn't get ready and almost head out the door. What if I hadn't checked online?
So, I politely replied that its a good thing I checked online first before leaving and that I am unavailable tomorrow.
If I didn't rush to feed my son before leaving, I'd just say hey kids lets go eat since I'm ready to go!
Worst feeling when you are all dressed up and nowhere to go. Oh well, time to dress into my PJ's and settle in for the night.
decided to go get a big hot fudge sundae.
don't think anyone is reading my update..maybe that's a good thing. [This message edited by click4it at 9:56 PM, August 27th (Tuesday)]
Me: 42
Two boys: 17 and 14
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01
Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?
Posts: 25649 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: California |
Jrazz
♀ 31349
Member # 31349 | | Posted: 11:01 PM, August 27th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
Sooooo... How was the sundae?
Xoxo
"All the wars, all the hatred, all the ignorance in the world come out of being so invested in our opinions. And at bottom, those opinions are merely our efforts to escape the underlying uneasiness of being human. - Pema Chodron
Posts: 20715 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California |
click4it
♀ 209
Member # 209 | | Posted: 11:14 PM, August 27th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
De-lish! I just gained 5lbs.
Me: 42
Two boys: 17 and 14
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01
Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?
Posts: 25649 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: California |
wildbananas
♀ 10552
Member # 10552 | | Posted: 11:41 PM, August 27th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
Good call on the sundae, clickie. 
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
Posts: 15505 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl |
click4it
♀ 209
Member # 209 | | Posted: 11:57 PM, August 27th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
Yeah you can never go wrong with a sundae. ty wild.
Me: 42
Two boys: 17 and 14
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01
Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?
Posts: 25649 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: California |
ArkLaMiss
♀ 14918
Member # 14918 | | Posted: 12:30 AM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
Awwwww, sorry! He's a jerk!
Just HOW stupid do you think I am, exactly?
Posts: 1313 | Registered: Jun 2007 |
click4it
♀ 209
Member # 209 | | Posted: 12:38 AM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
well Ark, I don't know, but I do know he didn't handle the cancellation well.
Me: 42
Two boys: 17 and 14
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01
Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?
Posts: 25649 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: California |
ArkLaMiss
♀ 14918
Member # 14918 | | Posted: 12:43 AM, August 28th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
Well, he could've handled it MUCH better than he did, for sure. We women take HOURS agonizing on everything regarding clothes, hairstyle, makeup, shoes, etc. Jeez, how rude of him to flake last minute!
Just HOW stupid do you think I am, exactly?
Posts: 1313 | Registered: Jun 2007 |
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