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click4it posted 8/21/2013 23:35 PM

How'd that happen?

I haven't had a date or just a "meet for a drink to size up the other person in person" in over a year.

I wasn't expecting to be asked out so fast. There was just a question or two back and forth. Usually I like to talk a lot longer than that before agreeing to meet, but why not talk in person?

Eeeks.

ArkLaMiss posted 8/21/2013 23:53 PM

Relax! It's only a date. Have fun and please report back asap!

FaithFool posted 8/22/2013 00:09 AM

Breathe!

wildbananas posted 8/22/2013 00:27 AM

I think it's awesome, clicky! I hope you have a great time.

She11ybeanz posted 8/22/2013 07:16 AM

YAY!!!! I hope you have a blast! (And please update us!)

cmego posted 8/22/2013 07:20 AM

I have a lot of guys who ask me out in the second email. They just don't like/want to bother with the email chatty stuff.

Usually I tell them I like to chat just a bit before meeting, or ask for their first/last name to google them before agreeing to meet.

Some poof after I ask for their name

MovingUpward posted 8/22/2013 10:49 AM

YAY Clicky!!!!!!


click4it posted 8/22/2013 14:22 PM

Its not till Tuesday. But I will keep you all posted.

(The cynical part of me says - he will cancel anyway)

I know, I know, stop trying to think so negative.

Jrazz posted 8/22/2013 14:52 PM

Oooooh I'm EXCITED!!!

I'll try my best not to be a nuisance Wednesday morning.

Too_Trusting posted 8/22/2013 17:17 PM

AWESOME clicky! You GO girl! You soooo deserve this. Enjoy!

nowiknow23 posted 8/22/2013 22:01 PM

Yay for first dates! Have fun, honey.

click4it posted 8/22/2013 23:36 PM

Here I go wondering...

The last thing I said was "yes, 7pm should work for me."

And then nothing.

And yes, I looked at his profile a few more times to get his details again so I wouldn't be going "blind" to this meet up.

But now I wonder if he thinks damn why does she keep looking at my profile and now changed his mind.

Damn full moons, its making me nutty tonight...

click4it posted 8/27/2013 20:52 PM

WELL, here I am about to head out the door, makeup on and rushed to get dressed and SOMETHING told me to check online to see if there is any last minute messages from him.

And wa-la there is one. He sent me a message online at 3pm saying he is unable to make it tonight due to work and can I meet tomorrow. Good enough reason, however, he had my number (as he gave me his) and could have TEXTED me this information so that I didn't get ready and almost head out the door. What if I hadn't checked online?

So, I politely replied that its a good thing I checked online first before leaving and that I am unavailable tomorrow.

If I didn't rush to feed my son before leaving, I'd just say hey kids lets go eat since I'm ready to go!

Worst feeling when you are all dressed up and nowhere to go. Oh well, time to dress into my PJ's and settle in for the night.

decided to go get a big hot fudge sundae.

don't think anyone is reading my update..maybe that's a good thing.

[This message edited by click4it at 9:56 PM, August 27th (Tuesday)]

Jrazz posted 8/27/2013 23:01 PM

Sooooo... How was the sundae?

Xoxo

click4it posted 8/27/2013 23:14 PM

De-lish! I just gained 5lbs.

wildbananas posted 8/27/2013 23:41 PM

Good call on the sundae, clickie.

click4it posted 8/27/2013 23:57 PM

Yeah you can never go wrong with a sundae. ty wild.

ArkLaMiss posted 8/28/2013 00:30 AM

Awwwww, sorry! He's a jerk!

click4it posted 8/28/2013 00:38 AM

well Ark, I don't know, but I do know he didn't handle the cancellation well.

ArkLaMiss posted 8/28/2013 00:43 AM

Well, he could've handled it MUCH better than he did, for sure. We women take HOURS agonizing on everything regarding clothes, hairstyle, makeup, shoes, etc. Jeez, how rude of him to flake last minute!

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