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User Topic: Big day! One small step towards R
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Default  Posted: 8:13 AM, August 22nd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Today my WH moves his office! He will no longer be 30 feet from OW, he will be in a different building with a different parking structure. The will continue to share a cafeteria (I was hoping he would pack a lunch) and it will take a few weeks to transition responsibilities.

I am excited that I won't have to stress every morning when he leaves, but it is tempered with the fact that we even have to deal with crap like this.

Oddly, I am also meeting with a lawyer this morning to discuss post nups, so it is a busy, busy day!

I am going to do my best and try to choose to be happy today!

Entering R slowly and cautiously...

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Default  Posted: 9:03 AM, August 22nd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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Default  Posted: 9:38 AM, August 22nd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So happy for you. I couldn't even imagine the feeling of knowing they were so close. My H and the MCOW work in the same building...different floors...different parking locations...and it still gives me anxiety. He has changed up his habits (rarely leaves his desk...even for lunch) but boy do I feel your relief.

Me - BS 58
H - WS 60/very remorseful and supportive

discovered 4 month long EA
R - slow and steady but very optimistic

Posts: 639 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: New Jersey
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Default  Posted: 6:01 PM, August 22nd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm really glad for you! Me, I'm pack him lunch each day so no need to go to cafeteria.

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012

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