Is anyone else more bothered by something like this than the actual act of sex? I am just talking about physical stuff here. The more emotional stuff.. talking all the time, lying to me, etc. that is on another level all together.
My WH spent the night with OW, it was 1 night. But all I can think of is the intimacy of sleeping next to another woman all night. She was all over him, caressing him, touching him, kissing him. She was "in love". My WH says he was there for the sex and she was a piece of meat. That makes me feel better. But I'm not sure I believe it. I keep asking him questions about that over and over again to confirm it. He said he didn't like kissing her and the sex sucked. I keep asking questions over and over again to make sure he's telling me the truth and not something I just want to hear.