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PrincessPeach06 (original poster member #39588) posted at 2:38 PM on Thursday, August 22nd, 2013
I was doing ok until WS told me about an employee who is upset over a friends affair and it made me so angry!!!
Today I hate every selfish WS out there. I have said this before but affairs take selfishness to a WHOLE new level I am personally thankful I will never understand. To completely disregard your spouse, kids and marriage vows for what feels good at that moment is such a selfish cowardly thing to do. To completely DESTROY the person you claim to love the most without a second thought is just pure cruelty.
I wish my H had robbed a bank or gambled away our kids college funds - just about anything other than infidelity.
Me (BS): 36
Him aka narcissistic psychopath (WS): 36
Married 17 years 6 kids ages 16-7
DDay #1 (EA) July '08
DDay #2 (EA/ONS- different OW) May 15, 2013
Finally this is R 8/14/13
Filed for divorce 5/8/15
2married2quit ( member #36555) posted at 3:19 PM on Thursday, August 22nd, 2013
I know how you feel. You are not alone. It is injustice and emotional abuse. There's no doubt about it. However, if your spouse is willing to rebuild always look to the future with hope. without hope, we can't exist.
Hugs.
BS - Me 47 WS - Her 45 ( she's a childhood sexual abuse survivor)
DDAY -#1- June 2012/ #2 -June 2015 / #3-August 2015
Married 25yrs. 2kids
She had 2 affairs with two different men.
Status: divorced.
PrincessPeach06 (original poster member #39588) posted at 3:47 PM on Thursday, August 22nd, 2013
Thankfully I have a wonderfully remorseful H who is doing all the work. That's why I hate this anger but the good days are slowly beginning to outnumber the bad ones.
The news of this other A just brought so much back up. Posting here seems to help me get it off my chest and feel better. 
Me (BS): 36
Him aka narcissistic psychopath (WS): 36
Married 17 years 6 kids ages 16-7
DDay #1 (EA) July '08
DDay #2 (EA/ONS- different OW) May 15, 2013
Finally this is R 8/14/13
Filed for divorce 5/8/15
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