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I was doing ok until WS told me about an employee who is upset over a friends affair and it made me so angry!!!

Today I hate every selfish WS out there. I have said this before but affairs take selfishness to a WHOLE new level I am personally thankful I will never understand. To completely disregard your spouse, kids and marriage vows for what feels good at that moment is such a selfish cowardly thing to do. To completely DESTROY the person you claim to love the most without a second thought is just pure cruelty.

I wish my H had robbed a bank or gambled away our kids college funds - just about anything other than infidelity.

I know how you feel. You are not alone. It is injustice and emotional abuse. There's no doubt about it. However, if your spouse is willing to rebuild always look to the future with hope. without hope, we can't exist.

Hugs.

Thankfully I have a wonderfully remorseful H who is doing all the work. That's why I hate this anger but the good days are slowly beginning to outnumber the bad ones.

The news of this other A just brought so much back up. Posting here seems to help me get it off my chest and feel better.