This Topic is Archived
suckstobeme (original poster member #30853) posted at 3:02 PM on Thursday, August 22nd, 2013
Boy. If I didn't have kids with him, I would know virtually nothing about him, except that he's a cheater, liar and giant ass.
The kids though, they keep me informed. Not informed of details of their father and OW. Nothing like that. I barely ask anything, but they like to tell their tales of life over there and the things that I learn about the "paradise" that these two numb nuts have created are priceless.
The latest? Dad didn't have time to do much with us this weekend because he was busy doing all the laundry. The dryer doesn't work so he has to hang all the clothes outside. Nice! One of the cheapest things to replace when it comes to major appliances and they haven't been able to do it.
Also, slunt bag apparently is without a car now. They tell me it broke. She's been driving to work with ex and had to ride her bike to run errands over the weekend. Problem is, he's not a nine to fiver like she is. His schedule sucks and often calls him to out lying towns late in the afternoon. I can just picture OW having to take the bus back home since everyone in their office still hates her guts and would never do her or him any kind of favor.
Amazing. She thought she got a real prize. The problem is, he was way more of a prize when he had full access to my salary. He was way more of a big shot then when he could steal right out from under my nose to host happy hours and dinners and go on vacations that I was told were work related.
I don't think this is karma anymore. I think it's honestly just the natural consequences of some really bad life decisions and the coming together of two people who are too stupid to blow their own noses between them.
I've said it before and I will say it again - its like he's getting pecked to death by a big slutty chicken. They live together, work together and now drive everywhere together. Peck, peck, peck.
Dumbass.
BW - me
ExWH - "that one"
D - 2011
You get what you put in, and people get what they deserve.
Hard as it may be, try to never give the OP any of your power or head space.
SBB ( member #35229) posted at 3:17 PM on Thursday, August 22nd, 2013
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
Must Survive ( member #34533) posted at 5:00 PM on Thursday, August 22nd, 2013
Where is the like button!
Me BS
WS: Just a squished bug on the window of my life!
Divorced-Let my new beginning start
They have a choice: they can live in my new world, or they can die in their old one." — Daenerys Targaryen
GabyBaby ( member #26928) posted at 5:04 PM on Thursday, August 22nd, 2013
Starts singing the commercial jingle, "I feel like chicken tonight, like chicken tonight...".
Me - late 40s
DD(27), DS(24, PDD-NOS)
WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself (May 2015) in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).
I edit often for clarity/typos.
Phoenix1 ( member #38928) posted at 6:28 PM on Thursday, August 22nd, 2013
The problem is, he was way more of a prize when he had full access to my salary.
Same here! When I cut him off financially he threw and absolutely hissy (before he left) about me being a control freak. I guess if you count me protecting my money from being spent on his ho bags, then yeah, I am guilty as charged!
fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!
You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~
movingforward13 ( member #38405) posted at 7:23 PM on Thursday, August 22nd, 2013
Once a cheater, always a cheater happens when your cheater doesn't have remorse.
Regret is not remorse- know the difference!
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 12:52 AM on Friday, August 23rd, 2013
Rats, tried to post a photo of Camilla, the Muppet Chicken. Didn't work so well.
[This message edited by Skan at 6:53 PM, August 22nd, 2013 (Thursday)]
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 1:07 AM on Friday, August 23rd, 2013
Here you go, Skan!
[This message edited by Nature_Girl at 7:08 PM, August 22nd (Thursday)]
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
numbandnauseous ( member #34525) posted at 4:56 AM on Saturday, August 24th, 2013
suckstobeme, it really DOESN'T suck to be you! 
Love that the natural consequences are happening!
BS (me) - 50
WH - 58, EA with HS GF x 2, now deceased
M: 15 years, T: 20, divorced
2 teenage children
DDay#1 - Christmas 2011 (OW#1)
Confronted - 4/6/12
DDay#2 - July 9, 2012 (OW#2)
He is an SA (Oct 2012)
This Topic is Archived
