[This message edited by DoneWithLove at 7:20 PM, August 22nd (Thursday)]
I keep going back and forth on "being done" myself. For me it's not his actions now; it's what he did in the past to hurt me. It's been a little over 2 months since our D-day, and I still get violently sick with the thought of him with her!
The reason I am *trying* to hang in there is because we have two kids, and a LOT to lose if we split. He is also showing a lot of remorse and doing everything right now (snarky emphasis on NOW). That being said, I can't say for sure that I'll actually be able to hang in there. It really freaking hurts, and I'm tired of feeling hurt and sad all the time!
If you think there's any love between you two, I would say it's worth trying. But if you can honestly say that you DON'T love him anymore, then maybe you've distanced yourself emotionally and you're ready to move on. I know I'm not quite to that point yet; I still love WH, even though most days I tell him to "go eat a dick!"
"One is not tempted by that he does not want."
[This message edited by DoneWithLove at 8:35 PM, August 22nd (Thursday)]
God be with us too.