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41andthankful posted 8/22/2013 20:31 PM

My WH needs to speak. The reason this week we should stay married, "I know you'll never trust me again"..and "I've done some really shitty stuff to you and I want to make it up to you." Somehow I am not moved. I don't think either is a good reason to stay in a marriage. Am I being cruel here? Does this make sense to anyone?

shatteredheart7 posted 8/22/2013 20:45 PM

Sounds like some really good reasons to me, NOT!

He says he wants to stay married because you'll never trust him again?? yeah, seems like a good reason to me. Is he doing anything to try to earn your trust back?

Yeah, he has done some shitty stuff (if your here I am assuming he has, I haven't read your story) At least he admits that, but what is he doing to make it up to you?

What really gets me is I don't hear any "I love you" in there. Sounds like pure laziness. You know what he is, he doesn't want to have to put on an act for someone else.

Ok, so I am not in the best of moods tonight. Nothing to do with Dh, but I probably should just keep my mouth shut and sit in the corner.

AppleBlossom posted 8/22/2013 20:54 PM

They may be reasons *he* wants to stay married, but how about he give some really good reasons as to why *you* should stay married to him?

AStar posted 8/23/2013 06:31 AM

Agreeing with AppleBlossom. Do you have a good reason to stay married to him. Has he given you any GOOD reason and followed it up with action.
His speech is a fail.
Ask him to try again - and put in some effort. You're worth it!!

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