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heathenchristian posted 8/22/2013 20:54 PM

It's coming up on 1 month since dday.
I don't ever have mind movies, images, etc about him and OW.
I don't really have triggers except maybe him being on facebook (that little green dot) it drives me crazy wondering who he is chatting with.
I am somewhat obsessed with checking to see if he's on line. Especially since he is out of town right now.
He's been texting me daily and calling at times.
We start our MC the day after he gets back from his trip.
So is it normal not to have any images/mind movies of him w/the OW? Could I be burying it deep inside becasue I don't want to imagine?

hardtimesinlife posted 8/22/2013 21:59 PM

I didn't have mind movies either. I did have triggers pretty bad but I didn't picture him with any of the ow's very often. Maybe because I never saw pictures or caught them. If you aren't having them I say enjoy it.

emotionalgirl posted 8/22/2013 23:37 PM

I think that each one of us deals with this in a different way....myself I had mind movies something terrible just after the first and second D day now I see to have moved past those but have little things that are triggering me, I don't know how long they will last or if it will be an issue forever. Either way each of our situations is different therefore the way we deal with things will be different.