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User Topic: 5 years later and I still have to deal with OW#1
Hearthache again
♀ 28564
Member # 28564
Default  Posted: 10:48 PM, August 22nd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It is coming up on five year dday anniversary of dday#1. I still have to see her. I hate her still. I don't ever think I will not dislike this poor excuse for a human being. One of her children are the same age as my 8 year old son. Her 9 year old son is in the same football league as my son. Thank God not the same team. They do practice at the same place. My H is the one who told me she was there. I have been home sick all week.

This never crossed my mind because the child is small and not very athletic. I just assumed he would not be interested in football. My son is double his size and a year and a half younger. Her FB page list her place of living in another town right next to ours. I hoped that she would of moved all the way out of town. I was all excited when I saw this, I celebrated too early.


I don't even think about OW#2. I could care less if I saw her around town. But OW#1 is another story. She tried everything to get my life. She befriended me to get close to my H, because he wanted nothing to do with her. She used her children and mine in her destructive ploys to get my life. She basically is a sociopath. This is something that can not be changed in someone. For her to disregard everyone else's feelings to get her own way. She has no moral compass.

I am not even angry at her anymore. I just wish I didn't have to be around her. She is like the plague, she should be avoided at all cost no matter who it is.

I have tried everything to not let her even cross my mind. I am starting to think this will always be this way. It maybe a reminder not to let my guard down anywhere near her, since a person can not grow a moral compass.

Just wish my H's mistakes were not this costly to me.


Me-BS(32)
Him-WS(35)
Married-12 years together 13
Kids 4: 15, 12, 8, and 3
DDay#1 9-26-2008 Dday#2 4-26-2010
We have R!!! But I still hate the number 26!

This too shall pass
I edit a lot because that stupid box is so small!


Posts: 871 | Registered: May 2010 | From: Michigan
Scubachick
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Member # 39906
Default  Posted: 10:58 PM, August 22nd (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Have you and your husband talked about what you guys will do if she tries to approach you or talk to you guys at practice?

Posts: 782 | Registered: Jul 2013
Hearthache again
♀ 28564
Member # 28564
Default  Posted: 1:40 AM, August 23rd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No that is a good idea thanks.


Me-BS(32)
Him-WS(35)
Married-12 years together 13
Kids 4: 15, 12, 8, and 3
DDay#1 9-26-2008 Dday#2 4-26-2010
We have R!!! But I still hate the number 26!

This too shall pass
I edit a lot because that stupid box is so small!


Posts: 871 | Registered: May 2010 | From: Michigan
rachelc
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Member # 30314
Default  Posted: 4:58 AM, August 23rd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am not even angry at her anymore. I just wish I didn't have to be around her

this is where I'm at. I'm not even concerned about the affairs starting up again. But, I maintain it was enough that it happened, I should't have to see them at ALL!
It just reminds me of what happened...

[This message edited by rachelc at 5:00 AM, August 23rd (Friday)]


his Dday: 2/10 but TT until 7/11
my Ddays: 1/12, 4/12 broken NC 12/12

me (WW/BS): 48
him: (BS/WH)52
4 kiddos in mid 20's

“Follow your intuition. Be smart, be brave. Tell the truth and don’t take any shit.”


Posts: 5482 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Midwest
Topic Posts: 4

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