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User Topic: The Hits Just Keep On Coming....
exhausted lady
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Default  Posted: 12:10 AM, August 23rd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

And I'm starting to feel a bit punch-drunk.....or something. Good Lord.

Today, my Bear & I had to put his dog down after finding out during surgery that the poor little guy had prostate cancer that had spread and blocked his intestines and bladder. I had only had this dog in my life for a few months, but.....he won me over very fast with his boundless enthusiasm and love of cuddles. Actually, the vet couldn't reach the Bear (at work) so she called me & I had to make that decision for him. Not a good feeling....but he said he was glad I got the call because he didn't think he could have gotten the words out. He loves that dog, and they had been through a lot together.

I lost my German Shepherd best friend for 10 years on Valentines Day. I lost my dad on July 9th....and now this. I'm reeling, and my Bear is devastated. WTH?

I'm not even sure where I'm going with this, I just needed to get it out. This was so unexpected that I'm stunned. How much of this crap does the universe expect me to absorb before I collapse? Shit!

Sometimes the hardest part of finally seeing through someone is accepting what you see...

God grant me the serenity to accept the people I cannot change, the courage to
change the one I can, and the wisdom to know it's me.
-Reinhold Neibuhr

Posts: 3171 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: Colorado
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Default  Posted: 12:24 AM, August 23rd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry el - ((Hugs)) for you and Bear.

Me: BW-46
Him: XWH-46

Status: D 2011
Remarried to a kind and wonderful man - 2017

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K.

Posts: 5287 | Registered: Mar 2011
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Default  Posted: 12:34 AM, August 23rd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


so sorry.

Me: 44
Two boys: 20 and 17
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?

Posts: 25687 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: California
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Default  Posted: 7:52 AM, August 23rd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm's heart-breaking to have to make those calls for our furkids.



BS: 58
WS: 53
Betrayed: 23 years
Affairs: 14 (2 lasted 3 months. Rest were ONS)
WS died: 16 May 2011
Do not stay in your hurt forever. Choose to move out of it.

Posts: 7526 | Registered: Jul 2006 | From: Wisconsin
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Default  Posted: 7:55 AM, August 23rd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((el and bear)))) So very sorry for your loss, especially coming so closely on the heels of two huge losses.

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

Posts: 40247 | Registered: Aug 2011
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Default  Posted: 8:11 AM, August 23rd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((exhausted & bear)))

I'm so sorry.

Posts: 50785 | Registered: Mar 2011
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Default  Posted: 8:20 AM, August 23rd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It doesn't take long for those furry beasts to steal a chunk of our hearts.
I am so sorry that you are going through so much at one time. Hopefully whoever has a bigger plan is just getting all the bad out of the way for you for a good long while.

(((and strength)))

Him: FWS
Kids: 18 & 20
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.

Posts: 13279 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
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