It took months to get here but in making the decision to move forward. My quick story...my BF was on craigslist for 2 years. Posting ads for men and women. I found all this out 1 week after we moved into our new home! Crazy right!!! That was oct 2012. He kept pushing thru trying to "win" me back. But as we all know there was TT until about march 2013. Brings us to now. The entire time until now I would say we were just living together not really talking or acting as a couple.
I know want to really try! Am I crazy for giving him a second chance maybe but I think it worth the risk!
I would like to know how to learn to forgive, trust, and move on and make a new life together? How do I do that when it seems like the odds r stacked against us? I have a 6 yo d from previous marriage...she adores him to pieces and asks us when we r going to get married and have baby...like we planned? Then I get scared thinking of future! He swears on everything that this would never happen again, and I believe him. This year has been so traumatizing for both of us...yes I know he created it!!
All of his actions happened while we were dating! Nothing happeden while we were moving forward. I want to continue to move forward w our plans.
Has anyone just jumped in w both feet???