OMG! Please don't do that! My H did that, it drove me to fury. Or despair. Sometimes both.
If she asks you to do something, do it. ASAP. For me, my H not doing it felt like disrespect, it felt like he did not care about my wants and needs, it felt like he only cared about his own feelings and needs. Did I want him to figure this stuff out on his own and do things like this on his own? Yes, absolutely. But I also was happy to see him making the *effort* to do what I asked for, what I needed and wanted.
Do the stuff she asks. And try hard to do some of these things before she asks.
Btw, my H found that the more he "forced" himself to do things that didn't feel genuine or spontaneous, the easier it became to do these things genuinely and spontaneously.