BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
I am so sorry, cuppacoffee.
FWH was laid off a couple of weeks after d-day. (Not affair related.)
It turned out to be a very wonderful thing as I was a stay at home mom so we spent 24/7 together. Also, our child was older, 14 at the time and in school.
We had intense HB, read books, we talked, went to MC, dated , spent a lot of time together. We discovered each other all over again. Remembered why we fell in love. We would just go to all kinds of parks and walk and talk. We played naked board games in bed. ('cause we were kind of trying to just live on unemployment and not use savings/retirement) We would go out to have just one drink (happy hour) or a cup of coffee instead of dinner. Went to matinee's at the theatre and oftentimes were the only ones there, so we would make out and feel each other up!
That being said, I am sending new job mojo to your husband. (((cuppa)))
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4-7yrs. /fucking & flirting)
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