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1DumbHusband posted 8/23/2013 21:30 PM
How do you deal with the times where EVERYTHING you say or do is the wrong thing? There have been times when my loving BS has gotten so angry and furious that every question feels like entrapment and no matter what I say...it's gonna be wrong. I try to tell her I am making changes in my actions and ways of thinking, but it sometimes feels like she doesn't care. "That's great you're making changes and TRYING to be better, but what does that do for me and how does that help MY pain?!?!" How do you help your BS come down from the top of "Anger mountain" in these circumstances and what do you do to reassure them?
1DumbHusband posted 8/23/2013 21:33 PM
Sorry I want responses from both sides and started the same thread twice. Mods please delete this one.