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User Topic: I Hate This
♀ 40219
Member # 40219
Flame  Posted: 11:39 PM, August 23rd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

1. I hate the damn affair.
2. I hate that my life is shattered because of it.
3. I hate feeling my feelings.
4. I hate being angry and I don 't know how to process the anger in a healthy way.
5. I hate that I didn't catch the red flags correctly (only thought it was a EA),
6. I hate that my WH can compartmentalize the whole thing and not be shattered like I am.
7. I hate that I had no say and I feel robbed somehow.
8. I hate that my WH already is tired of the healing process.
9. I hate that I am in this mess.
10. I hate that I feel like I can't just walk away from it all (it's super complicated).

Sigh it's just not fair at all. I still maintain that it would have been better for him to leave me than to deal with this damn fucked up affair.

[This message edited by MsRukia at 11:40 PM, August 23rd (Friday)]

BS (34)
WS MisterP (37)
Together 14 1/2 years
D Day 03 Aug 13 EA & PA
D Day #2 01 Sep 13 continued EA & PA with OW
Slowly but surely finding my way.

Posts: 177 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Colorado Springs
♀ 40178
Member # 40178
Default  Posted: 11:43 PM, August 23rd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hate it all as well!!!

Me-BS 45
Him-WS 45
Married 14 years
1st D-Day August 2009
TT for 4 year
More Affair info August 2013

The wound keeps getting broke open each time he tells me more "truths"

Posts: 20 | Registered: Aug 2013
♀ 40356
Member # 40356
Default  Posted: 11:46 PM, August 23rd (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hear you. Share a lot of the same feelings. Hugs to you!

Me: late 30s Husband: late 30s
M 14 years, T 18
C: 8 and 10

DD 1: 3/12 numerous PA from 95-05 resulted in me confessing to brief PA prior to marriage

DD 2: 4/12 RA with prost.

DD 3: 11/12 RA with old professor

Hoping for R but doubtful

Posts: 33 | Registered: Aug 2013
Topic Posts: 3

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