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strawblond30 posted 8/23/2013 23:56 PM

He wanted to still be friends and we text blah blah and it's hurting me if he hasn't responded knowing he is slutting around . I hope it's with more then one , cus I hate to know she ( this weekend get away ladies ) is special. He has had 3 since he moved out last month OMG. We just divorced in June!!!

newlysingle posted 8/24/2013 00:43 AM

You need to go NC so you can heal. Any contact with him should be strictly business (kids, finances, etc.) This is not the time to be friends with your ex.

Iamhappytoday posted 8/24/2013 00:50 AM

Wish I had gone NC loooong ago. Trust the advice here. NC is your friend.

Ariabook posted 8/24/2013 10:51 AM

NC all the way. Its hard but needs to be done in order to heal. What if in one of those convos you find out she ( weekend lady ) IS special? Don't do that to yourself. Cut contact, set up an online calendar if there's visitation and keep it strictly business!

strawblond30 posted 8/24/2013 16:55 PM

She isn't that special found match .com emails to another from just two days ago

newlysingle posted 8/24/2013 19:21 PM

Stop checking in on him and his emails. Unfriend him from all social media, don't check his email, etc. You need to detach. You are divorced now and it really isn't your business what he does now anyway. You are going to keep yourself in this place of limbo if you continue to check on him. You need to work on making a life for yourself that doesn't include him. Fake it 'till you make it.