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strawblond30 (original poster member #6263) posted at 5:56 AM on Saturday, August 24th, 2013
He wanted to still be friends and we text blah blah and it's hurting me if he hasn't responded knowing he is slutting around . I hope it's with more then one , cus I hate to know she ( this weekend get away ladies ) is special. He has had 3 since he moved out last month OMG. We just divorced in June!!!
Divorced 2013 after several years of infidelity on both sides. Remarried July 2018 my new husband Is opposite from Ex. I can actually breath with out worrying what he is doing. Living my best life now .
newlysingle ( member #38735) posted at 6:43 AM on Saturday, August 24th, 2013
You need to go NC so you can heal. Any contact with him should be strictly business (kids, finances, etc.) This is not the time to be friends with your ex.
BW - Me (40)
XWH -The Gnat
"Engaged" to OW, but the wedding appears to be indefinitely postponed.
M for 8 years, together for 10
1 DD (8), 1 DS (3)
Dday 3/13
Happily Divorced 9/20/13
Iamhappytoday ( member #39051) posted at 6:50 AM on Saturday, August 24th, 2013
Wish I had gone NC loooong ago. Trust the advice here. NC is your friend.
BW 39
WH 34
2DD's 15 months at start
Together 10 years, M 9
OW 22 CW, 2kids by 2 men & youngest less than 1 when affair started.
Dday 1 8/16/12 "just texting"
TT, gaslighting, denial; was always PA; he left me for her. Divorced 8/11/15
Ariabook ( member #39669) posted at 4:51 PM on Saturday, August 24th, 2013
NC all the way. Its hard but needs to be done in order to heal. What if in one of those convos you find out she ( weekend lady ) IS special? Don't do that to yourself. Cut contact, set up an online calendar if there's visitation and keep it strictly business!
strawblond30 (original poster member #6263) posted at 10:55 PM on Saturday, August 24th, 2013
She isn't that special found match .com emails to another from just two days ago
Divorced 2013 after several years of infidelity on both sides. Remarried July 2018 my new husband Is opposite from Ex. I can actually breath with out worrying what he is doing. Living my best life now .
newlysingle ( member #38735) posted at 1:21 AM on Sunday, August 25th, 2013
Stop checking in on him and his emails. Unfriend him from all social media, don't check his email, etc. You need to detach. You are divorced now and it really isn't your business what he does now anyway. You are going to keep yourself in this place of limbo if you continue to check on him. You need to work on making a life for yourself that doesn't include him. Fake it 'till you make it.
BW - Me (40)
XWH -The Gnat
"Engaged" to OW, but the wedding appears to be indefinitely postponed.
M for 8 years, together for 10
1 DD (8), 1 DS (3)
Dday 3/13
Happily Divorced 9/20/13
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