I had been doing very well, as had he. Than last weekend I saw her name pop up as having sent him an e-mail on his phone and saw "I dont understand". He tried to click off of it bc we had been having a great night and he didnt want me upset (I had also had a bit much wine) Well...I saw him try to swipe the screen to black and grabbed the phone from him. Its gone...she is nowhere on his phone and he is saying he doesnt know where it went. He didnt delete it bc he never even opened up into it. Im confused. I heard there are messages that delete themselves in a short amt of time, or various different messaging things...what could the answer be???
Anyways, on top of this hitting me I have had 3 people Im close to (2 who I thought had great marriages)confide in me with 2 with cheating 1 NPD husband who triggered her old issues steming from her PTSD he knew about and finding a way to blame her instead of trying to help fix what he did. My heart is breaking. I feel there is no hope. And why divorce bc it really seems like 90% of marriages are horrible. Amazing how I was finally feeling good again for a while and now Im broken again.