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My husband came clean on July 21st that he was having an affair with a married woman. They slept together twice once on July 7th and once on July 8th. I just found out I'm pregnant. And our conception date would've been around the time of his infidelity. I feel so dirty. He slept with her and then around the same time slept with me. And now the only thing I can think about is did he get her pregnant too.

Yikes!

First of all don't stress, don't obsess. Take care of yourself and your baby.

It's still so early out from d-day... how are you and your H doing (NC, remorse, transparency, counseling, etc) Have you told him about your pregnancy or are we the first to know?

::hugs:: hun. We're here for you.

Well I gave him a deadline to decide if he was willing to do mc or if we should jus get a divorce. That date was set for August 19th. I found out august 17th. But I didn't want it to affect his decision so I didn't tell him right away. But now he's not acting very interested in the pregnancy. Every time I bring it up or talk about plans for the kids room or baby names or whatever he either ignores me or makes a negative comment.

First off you are not dirty.
The date came and passed and now he is ignoring you or saying something negative about your pregnancy. I would check out my legal options and quickly too.

^^^ This. Bring a little reality into his fantasy life that of supporting you and your child. Also, I do hope that you had STD/HIV tests. Especially since you're pregnant. (((hugs)))