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We conceived around the time of his infidelity.

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smc0813 posted 8/24/2013 09:42 AM

My husband came clean on July 21st that he was having an affair with a married woman. They slept together twice once on July 7th and once on July 8th. I just found out I'm pregnant. And our conception date would've been around the time of his infidelity. I feel so dirty. He slept with her and then around the same time slept with me. And now the only thing I can think about is did he get her pregnant too.

krazy8516 posted 8/24/2013 09:55 AM

Yikes!

First of all don't stress, don't obsess. Take care of yourself and your baby.

It's still so early out from d-day... how are you and your H doing (NC, remorse, transparency, counseling, etc) Have you told him about your pregnancy or are we the first to know?

::hugs:: hun. We're here for you.

smc0813 posted 8/24/2013 10:18 AM

Well I gave him a deadline to decide if he was willing to do mc or if we should jus get a divorce. That date was set for August 19th. I found out august 17th. But I didn't want it to affect his decision so I didn't tell him right away. But now he's not acting very interested in the pregnancy. Every time I bring it up or talk about plans for the kids room or baby names or whatever he either ignores me or makes a negative comment.

jjsr posted 8/24/2013 11:22 AM

First off you are not dirty.
The date came and passed and now he is ignoring you or saying something negative about your pregnancy. I would check out my legal options and quickly too.

Skan posted 8/24/2013 14:26 PM

^^^ This. Bring a little reality into his fantasy life that of supporting you and your child. Also, I do hope that you had STD/HIV tests. Especially since you're pregnant. (((hugs)))

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