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Ariabook posted 8/24/2013 09:51 AM

2 days of NC and I'm really feeling it. walking to see my Doc and get some papers filled out. Want to text/call him. Every inch of land reminds me of him. How can I live in a place where I have so much memories and still recover? Its hurts so much right now.

I can't believe he chose someone else over his own daughter. He doesn't want to be? I can deal, I'm trying my best. But to say that if DDlooked more like you you would probably loved her more is plain old cruel. A paternity test? Asshole! Go to hell! I hate him so much

krazy8516 posted 8/24/2013 09:59 AM

if DDlooked more like you you would probably loved her more

What?! That is a terrible thing to say!

Aww, hun! ::hugs:: to you and your little girl!

Morhurt posted 8/24/2013 10:00 AM

Oh I am so sorry. You're right, that IS cruel. What an ass.

Big hugs!

jjsr posted 8/24/2013 11:23 AM

Asshole.

Ariabook posted 8/24/2013 11:31 AM

Thanks guy, I really didn't see it coming. He was always Oh So Happy to see her. His words really caught me off guard.

Just this morning DD took my phone and starting "dialing" positioned the phone close to her ears and said " Dada" I felt so angry for her. I can't believe what he's done to us, to her. My poor baby.

Skan posted 8/24/2013 15:39 PM

And every time that you're tempted to break NC, remember those cruel words. Those are not the words of someone who has you or your daughter's best interests at heart. (((hugs)))

Girlietoo posted 8/24/2013 15:43 PM

Wow. That man doesn't deserve to call your little girl his daughter. So callous. I truly hope he sees the error of this ways and at least develops a relationship with his child.

FWIW, I have three older children who are not biologically my husbands. He has loved and cared for them as he would his own for the last 15yrs.

One day, when you are ready, you will find love again.

Athena1979 posted 8/24/2013 16:06 PM

What a worthless, selfish bastard!

How could he say something like that about his kid?!

Keep those terrible words close. Not to cause you more pain, because eventually, he will try to weasel back, and you might think about it.

Keep yourself grounded.

Hugs to you. I'm sorry this happened to you.

whatnow8 posted 8/24/2013 16:12 PM

And every time that you're tempted to break NC, remember those cruel words. Those are not the words of someone who has you or your daughter's best interests at heart.

Asshole

I agree with this 100%. ((Ariabook))

blindsided03 posted 9/15/2013 21:54 PM

don't worry!! he's playing the victim here. by making you "look bad," he's justifying his A to himself. don't take the bait. just laugh that this is how desperate he is to not be the bad guy. come on, we all know this is called projection--you didn't cheat, but he feels better by making you out to be the bad guy. you know what, let him say what he wants. babies only look like their dads for the 1st 6m, then they start to look like themselves. forget this douche. he's trying to justify how irresponsible he is.

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